Quoting Shayztar:" Opinions are like smurfs. Everyone's got one. To the OP: It's a personal decision. I didn't agree ... [snip!] ... facts supporting both cases. I can relate to you. I hope you and your husband come to a happy agreement. Enjoy your new bubs."
Thanks for the input! And I do agree with you... my situation will PROBABLY end up kind of like yours. I'll have more discussions with SO about it before DS is born, and try to make sure he knows what I think would be a good idea, but ultimately, I'll probably end up leaving the final decision to him. Anyway, when else is he going to have complete control over something that happens in his son's life? (While I'm here, never. lol)
And no matter what he decides, I'm sure I'll learn to handle taking care of DS as best as I can. It's just what we do.
I never thought this discussion would get so heated... lol. Teach me to post and run... twice! haha