re: SO and I disagreeing on circumcision

Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" Oh, whatever... That's ridiculous! MOST babies don't even respond to getting circ'd, they sleep right through it.. My son did."

you are delusional.

Quoting Kimber-lily:" It's something that cannot be undone. If your SO want's the child circumcised and you do not, then I ... [snip!] ... not, then I would stand your ground. Your SO will get over it, and if your son wants the surgery when he is older than he can."

This! I just had a boy and we decided to not circumcised my son, we did a lot of research and learned a lot. It's the way nature intended and if my son wanted to get circ when he is older then he can, his body,his decision.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Peyton's~Mom:</b>" Oh, whatever... That's ridiculous! MOST babies don't even respond to getting circ'd, they sleep right through it.. My son did."</blockquote>



Thank you! I'm glad I'm not the only one in here that got it done!

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" you are delusional."

Okay...? So, YOU have a son??
Why the smurf are you even arguing if you don't?

Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" Okay...? So, YOU have a son?? Why the smurf are you even arguing if you don't? "

Someone doesn't need to have a son in order to do research, or have not made a decision. Silly you would think that.
My SO and I did research and decided on not circumcising our children before we even found out the gender.

Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" Okay...? So, YOU have a son?? Why the smurf are you even arguing if you don't? "

You have to have a son, in order to be educated?
lol

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" You have to have a son, in order to be educated? lol"

Guess so! Maybe we should have circumcised our daughters. That "extra" fold of skin is probably why women get yeast infections, it isn't natural to have it.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Guess so! Maybe we should have circumcised our daughters. That "extra" fold of skin is probably why women get yeast infections, it isn't natural to have it.  "</blockquote>




Lol

Quoting Kimber-lily:" Someone doesn't need to have a son in order to do research, or have not made a decision. Silly you ... [snip!] ... would think that. My SO and I did research and decided on not circumcising our children before we even found out the gender. "

Why on earth would you do research before hand!! That's absurd!

If someone has pros of going a circ, then please let me know. Because after everything that I have looked up. I have had a long time to research, there are no pros. Only bullsmurf factsthat are made up so the doctorscan get more money. [Except for medical reasons]

I didn't want my son to be, but my DH made the ultimate decision. He told me that he didn't want to have to explain to my son why their penises look different. He also told me that he's not entirely sure how to care for an uncircumcised penis, so he wouldn't be able to give me any advice in that department. In the end, I deferred the decision to him. One of those rare moments in life where I gave him 100% decision making rights. What do I know about lifetime penis care? I HATED it when he came back from the procedure. I hated caring for it, I hated giving him meds at such a tender age. I hated everything about it. But. If I have another son, it will probably happen again.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shayztar:</b>" I didn't want my son to be, but my DH made the ultimate decision. He told me that he didn't want to have ... [snip!] ... giving him meds at such a tender age. I hated everything about it. But. If I have another son, it will probably happen again. "</blockquote>




It's really easy to take care of an uncirced penis, you just clean it like a finger and never pull back the skin.

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shayztar:</b>" I didn't want my son to be, but my DH made the ... [snip!] ... It's really easy to take care of an uncirced penis, you just clean it like a finger and never pull back the skin."

Sure, when he's a baby, but it's the idea of lifetime care. When he's older and I let him care for himself. That kind of thing. My cousin got infected and ended up needing to be circumcised at 13. It was a terrible procedure for him. I'm not saying that it will happen to every man. But hey, OP asked for opinions. I provided my bit of insight.  

Oh my some of these posts are ridiculous!!

IF a man or teenager get an infection on there penis, well may they should learn how not to be soo fkn dirty && take showers. DUH! Post up above, you mention your cousin got an infection at 13, at 13 your consider a teenager, your cousin shoulda kept his cock clean, simple!!

Wow sometimes people are soo misinformed!!

Quoting Shayztar:" Sure, when he's a baby, but it's the idea of lifetime care. When he's older and I let him care for himself. ... [snip!] ... for him. I'm not saying that it will happen to every man. But hey, OP asked for opinions. I provided my bit of insight.  "

It is REALLY easy for lifetime care. My ex is intact and for the 6 years I was with him it was washed like any other body part.