re: Should I Move-in with my Boyfriend?

Yeah, sorry I meant moving-in with my boyfriend to our own place. I'm just nervous about how it will go. Thank u  

Quoting Dexter's Mummy!:" maybe he hasn't been able to afford it on his own? My sister lived with mum and dad untill 29 because ... [snip!] ... her own place untill she was done and had a job. THAT was hell, She was well annoying to live with for all that time! lol. x"

Regardless. Unable to support oneself is a sign a person isn't ready for a serious relationship.

Quoting Suzanne88:" Yeah, sorry I meant moving-in with my boyfriend to our own place. I'm just nervous about how it will go. Thank u  "

In that case, give it a shot.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Regardless. Unable to support oneself is a sign a person isn't ready for a serious relationship."

well, this could be true. She's 34 now and still never had a serious relationship. x

Quoting Dexter's Mummy!:" well, this could be true. She's 34 now and still never had a serious relationship. x"

Some people are happier living at home than having real, valuable, romantic relationships. Their choice. Just the two rarely go well together. There are some cases, like parental illness and such, but usually it's just asking for trouble.

Quoting Suzanne88:" Yeah, sorry I meant moving-in with my boyfriend to our own place. I'm just nervous about how it will go. Thank u  "

like i said, you know him better than we do. if you think this is a good idea, do it.


personally i think i'd want to stay in a relationship a little longer than 10 months before moving in with each other...buuuuut there are those relationships that last and they moved "fast".

Quoting ✩BG Addict✩:" like i said, you know him better than we do. if you think this is a good idea, do it. personally i ... [snip!] ... longer than 10 months before moving in with each other...buuuuut there are those relationships that last and they moved "fast"."

-raises hand- lol. My husband and I met online 6/27, he flew out here 8/16 and never left, we got married 11/17. Now 3 1/2 years later, we're on baby #2. Doesn't work for everyone, but for some it does.

My boyfriend and I are planning on buying a small home or building one for starting and that will prob take another year lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" -raises hand- lol. My husband and I met online 6/27, he flew out here 8/16 and never left, we got married ... [snip!] ... and never left, we got married 11/17. Now 3 1/2 years later, we're on baby #2. Doesn't work for everyone, but for some it does."</blockquote>




Awe how great   I so wish everything goes great with my bf and me. I also want a baby but I want to finish school first, gonna be a nurse  

How about y'all find your own place, he's almost 30 for crying out loud and still living with mommy and daddy, i don't care who agree's with me but that's just beyond ridiculous. I'm sure they don't want another person moving in, even if you help out with bills and food.

Quoting Suzanne88:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" -raises hand- lol. My husband ... [snip!] ...   I so wish everything goes great with my bf and me. I also want a baby but I want to finish school first, gonna be a nurse  "

Do your best to finish school   It's hard with a baby. That's for sure.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Regardless. Unable to support oneself is a sign a person isn't ready for a serious relationship."

There's not a lot of people who are able to support themselves these days

<blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" There's not a lot of people who are able to support themselves these days"</blockquote>




Within reason shrew there are. We get help from my parents from time to time but overall we do and so do most I know. Food stamps as assistance doesn't mean not supporting yourself. Living with someone who pays your way however does. People just think that in hard times having toys is more important than self sufficiency.

Quoting Suzanne88:" I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, he lives with his parents, pays for bills and helps with ... [snip!] ... I've been thinking of moving- in with my boyfriend. I just want to know what other people think. I'm 24 and he's 28. Thank u!"

Does he want you to move in? Do his parents like you?
Would his parents even be okay with such an arrangement?

I think the more mature thing to do, would be to look for a place independent of his parents, and start from there. Moving in with someone is huge and takes getting used to on both parties' sides.. adding two more people to the equation would be too much potential drama.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha & Nika:</b>" Does he want you to move in? Do his parents like you? Would his parents even be okay with such an arrangement? ... [snip!] ... and takes getting used to on both parties' sides.. adding two more people to the equation would be too much potential drama."</blockquote>




Yes, he want me to move-in(or move-out since we would be moving out from our parents home. And his parents do like me, there is no intention at all for me to move-in to his parents home.