re: mjt♥

I don't know your relationship but if you feel abused then you should probably leave. Stuff happens, I've been abused and I know that it can start from things like that but it sounds like you both have a lot of growing up to do. And if he isn't willing to do couples counseling and you can't work things out for yourselves then it's probably best to leave anyway. Good luck OP!

I wouldn't call it abuse, but I think you guys do need to sit down & talk & possibly go to counseling if you can talk him into it. Especially before you continue to TTC.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" basically what i said! :-) and i got called a miserable loser or something, hehe. one of these girls is obsessed wiht me --- creepy!"

Lol, I wish I had seen this topic when it was first posted!

I'm pretty sensitive on the subject... like people are calling abuse over ANYTHING now a days. Men especially can't even raise their voice without being called abusive. In the long run of a relationship it's not always going to be perfect, men and woman get angry and lose their temper. I'm not saying it's right to react like that, but is it really fair to think you're being abused when during an argument you got something small thrown at you for the first time? No. Come back when there's a pattern lol