re: mjt♥

Quoting £egendary £ex:" yes it is  "

are you serious? throwing a key ring is turning abusive? wow... i dont even know what to say to that.. you're pretty pathetic.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" glad you think so. i try. all of you guys silly little teeny booper problems make my head spin. ... [snip!] ... if he did throw a key ring at me i wouldnt run to a silly website and ask strangers if they thought he was getting abusive.... "

You are always such a miserable bitch.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" right? I definitely think it is a big deal. What is he, 2 years old?   I do think it's hard to tell from one instance though too."</blockquote>




Like I said in the OP i've been a major bitch lately. It's just a constant bicker back and forth this month.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" are you serious? throwing a key ring is turning abusive? wow... i dont even know what to say to that.. you're pretty pathetic. "

Yep, dead serious. Throwing a metal object at someone's partner is abuse & I would not tolerate it. Idk what you're trying to say here, so she should just shrug it off? Hokay   Normal people don't throw smurf at others when they get pissy.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" oh come on -- yeah it probably wasnt ... [snip!] ... too?"</blockquote> Nope I tossed them to him under handed. Unlike him I wasn't beyond pissed, I just wanted him gone."

aw well. not sure what to tell you -- is his little key ring rage the first time he's tried to hit you with something?

Throwing things and breaking stuff are typically the first signs that a person could escalate to physical violence.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" aw well. not sure what to tell you -- is his little key ring rage the first time he's tried to hit you with something?"</blockquote>




Yeah, first time.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" aw well. not sure what to tell you ... [snip!] ... -- is his little key ring rage the first time he's tried to hit you with something?"</blockquote> Yeah, first time."

It doesn't mean that it will keep escalating, but it definitely could. Sounds like you both have a lot of issues to work out. If you guys can't communicate with fighting, that is a huge red flag. Mental abuse is just as bad as physical.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" It doesn't mean that it will keep escalating, but it definitely could. Sounds like you both have a ... [snip!] ... to work out. If you guys can't communicate with fighting, that is a huge red flag. Mental abuse is just as bad as physical."</blockquote>




I've been trying to talk him into going to couples counseling but he won't.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Yep, dead serious. Throwing a metal object at someone's partner is abuse & I would not tolerate ... [snip!] ... trying to say here, so she should just shrug it off? Hokay   Normal people don't throw smurf at others when they get pissy."

Normal people dont scream abuse because their partner throws a keychain.. We all have angry moments, and things we regret. And yeah... I would shrug it off. I dont think throwing a keychain is reason to discredit all the great things a person has done over the years. I'm really sorry that you think this is just such an awful terrible offense. You must be perfect and never angry!

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" You are always such a miserable bitch. "

haha okay -- if you say so, person ive never seen before on baby-gaga...

its okay to be jealous of me and my life. i would be if i were you. you can check your hostility and name calling at the door though -- its very unbecoming of a young lady.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" Normal people dont scream abuse because their partner throws a keychain.. We all have angry moments, ... [snip!] ... the years. I'm really sorry that you think this is just such an awful terrible offense. You must be perfect and never angry! "

I don't think it is something to break up over either necessarily. I still think it's a warning sign though & I wouldn't forgive that easily. I get angry lol, I just don't throw stuff... I did when I was younger & I learned it wasn't healthy.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" I don't think it is something to break up over either necessarily. I still think it's a warning sign ... [snip!] ... forgive that easily. I get angry lol, I just don't throw stuff... I did when I was younger & I learned it wasn't healthy. "

you wouldnt forgive that easily? it didnt even hit her. she even said she's been a raging friggin bitch this month. they need to talk to eachother obviously.

my husband and i cant stay mad at eachother... it would take a LOT for me to "not forgive him easily" - a hell of a lot more than a keychain hummed at my general direction.

it takes all kinds i guess

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" you wouldnt forgive that easily? it didnt even hit her. she even said she's been a raging friggin bitch ... [snip!] ... to "not forgive him easily" - a hell of a lot more than a keychain hummed at my general direction. it takes all kinds i guess"

no I wouldn't... then again I don't have a very good past w/ physical stuff like that. So maybe I'm just more sensitive than others. I agree, sitting down & talking is a great idea though.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" haha okay -- if you say so, person ive never seen before on baby-gaga... its okay to be jealous of ... [snip!] ... be if i were you. you can check your hostility and name calling at the door though -- its very unbecoming of a young lady. "

It's cute that you keep making assumptions about me.