Quoting LilyRain12:" So i have a friend (ex gf) that has had the most smurfed up AF i've ever known. she seems to think that ... [snip!] ... lay off till you know for sure? i'm just curious. i can see her point but i'd still be paranoid of hurting a potential baby..."
I have been there and after suffering through infertility for years and being disappointed time and time and time again, it's not uncommon at all to begin thinking this way. Infertility puts your life on hold in so many ways and at some point you just have to start living your life again before you go crazy.