What the smurf do you do

When you find out your SO of over a year is living a complete lie that you have believed all this time. MAJOR Smurf that he has perpetuated lies about?! Like... I don't even know what to do. Do you just block any and all contact? I'm lost right now. I feel sick :-(

Depends on what it is really & if we had kids together.

 

i'd just cry. yes, cut all contact.

This exact thing has happened to my sister 3 times in a row! Block all contact. It's always gonna be a lie to cover up all the lies you discovered. So not worth it.

Yikes :/ idk momma I'm sorry you're going thru this tho  

depends what it is. But if you're that upset over it, probably just leave and cut off contact. I'm sorry  

Quoting JiLLiAN.:"   i'd just cry. yes, cut all contact."

same here.

As long as you don't have a kid together block all calls and move on. I hope you know none of what is going on is your fault. Some people are able to live double lives/lie extremely well. At least you found out now and not after you we're married or had a child.

Yup! I would, it has happened to me before. My ex told me was in the Navy for 5 years, turns out he was in jail the whole time  

im so sorry sweetie if you need to talk you can pm me x

definitely block all contact & move on. No way should you give the guy another chance, ever.

No kids together. I feel horrible right now. I can't even believe it. Too many lies to even list them all. But it's more one BIG HUGE lie that he had to tell millions of other lies to cover up.

It would really depend, but most likely yes to everything you've asked.

Quoting 3+1=4:" Depends on what it is really & if we had kids together."

same.

I've had 2 men get other girls preg while with me...

I even threw 1 a shower, because she lived with us after she came out that she was preg   it was so weird...

Depending on what it was, I would try to fix things, but if its all a big lie I would cut contact at least for a while to get my head together...