Quoting A&J. ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" And OP, don't beat yourself up over it. This ... [snip!] ... You stay good and good things will come to you. He'll get his. "</blockquote> I feel SO stupid. I can't help it :-("
I know. I've been there. I ended a 10 year relationship over something along these lines. Love of my life. Talk about feeling stupid! Of course you feel stupid, how else are you supposed to feel? But it doesn't mean that you ARE stupid. It just means you got tricked. Shame on him, not you.