Quoting Brandi Milam:" Is there a possibility that she can spend a few nights a week with your mom? And she may throw a fit ... [snip!] ... be going out to a movie and roller skating. Her dad can do that stuff with her and you can be the calm stay at home parent."
She is in school and we live far enough away that it is a pain in the ass to have to come and go from there multiple times a week. And even if she does stay for a couple nights she will still throw the same fit about wanting to stay when it is time to come home.