Quoting Jenna+1:" I'd do it and plan on throwing myself a second one if no one else wants to when I get pregnant again. ... [snip!] ... What is he not good enough for new also? So I see nothing wrong with it, ESPECIALLY if they are born in different seasons."
Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" If you want to celebrate the baby, wait until there is a baby to celebrate. Have a dinner party or BBQ, ... [snip!] ... party or BBQ, and if people want to bring gifts they will, and they won't feel obligated. Baby showers are for the mother."