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You missed it.

That is messed up but you shouldn't start any drama because of it since it really isn't your business.

It's not your business at all. Delete her or don't read her smurf. People handle the grief of abortions differently.

Maybe she just doesn't want people to know she had an abortion for fear of being looked down on. I'd stay out of it.

It's messed up, but don't make anything out of its not your place or business.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Third Time Mommy:</b>" I may be wrong for being as mad as I am for this, but I'm going to bitch about it anyway. My SIL was ... [snip!] ... it's not my place to put her business on blast like that. But damn. Am I wrong for being so frustrated with her? END RANT."</blockquote>




I wouldn't say smurf. It's not your place.

You can feel frustrated with her but putting her on blast will also make you look bad.

granted i hate drama i'd comment asking why she is lying that is terrible she killed her baby not her baby just died.

Quoting Victoria051712:" granted i hate drama i'd comment asking why she is lying that is terrible she killed her baby not her baby just died."

That's definitely not the type of comment anyone should ever make to someone that had an abortion. It's mean and drama seeking.

Quoting Victoria051712:" granted i hate drama i'd comment asking why she is lying that is terrible she killed her baby not her baby just died."

Are you kidding me?

Quoting Daenerys™:" That's definitely not the type of comment anyone should ever make to someone that had an abortion. It's mean and drama seeking."

The way i look at it she killed her baby why lie yeah people may look down on her but she don't need to lie it was her choice and they should get over it

<blockquote><b>Quoting Victoria051712:</b>" granted i hate drama i'd comment asking why she is lying that is terrible she killed her baby not her baby just died."</blockquote>



Ffs  

Quoting Victoria051712:" The way i look at it she killed her baby why lie yeah people may look down on her but she don't need to lie it was her choice and they should get over it"

Or the OP should get over it and move on with her life....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Victoria051712:</b>" The way i look at it she killed her baby why lie yeah people may look down on her but she don't need to lie it was her choice and they should get over it"</blockquote>




Facebook is NOT the place to start that, though. If she wans to call her out, she should do it privately.

I would stay out of it but at the same time I would feel the same way. If it was just other people asking about the pregnancy and her saying she miscarried I could understand that, but making a Facebook status like that just seems like she wants attention and wants people to feel sorry for her.

Quoting Victoria051712:" The way i look at it she killed her baby why lie yeah people may look down on her but she don't need to lie it was her choice and they should get over it"

Please be careful what you say in here, this is a protective forum. Regardless, a baby was lost and that's what is important. She is grieving in her own way and certainly shouldn't be looked down upon, no matter what she chose to do.