Quoting katxo:" this is one thing you just need to leave alone. Society looks down on abortion, maybe she feels alone ... [snip!] ... through, none at all, and you shouldn't be judging her. I feel really bad for "your friend' or whoever the hell she is to you."
This is my not some random person I don't know, this is my SIL, I've know her for years, I see her almost daily, we've been pregnant together, gone out together, been here for each other through alot of smurf, and we talk about alot, and she has never ONCE acted like she has given HALF a smurf about the abortion, her SO BEGGED her NOT to do it, even so, I didn't judge her for doing it, and when I saw the status, I was going to brush it off as her grieving, and still didn't judge her for the abortion or status, but I think it's wrong when she is telling my friend and other women that she went through EXACTLY what they have and making them believe something that is not true. She chose to have the abortion because she didn't like the timing, that is not the same thing has suffering through a late term miscarriage
with a child you actually wanted, and that's what she is making people think happened.