I'm not even sure if I could ever be with another man if my husband died. I do know that people are different and grieve in different ways and some people just can't be alone.
My dad died when I was four and was dating someone (who she later moved in with and married). when I was 5. She was very lonely and needed help to raise me. She still misses my father very much and has confided in me that even though she loves my step-dad she spent many years pining for my father.