i need honest opinions.

i need honest opinions.I'm 17 years old and ny baby daddy is 19. We've been together for almost 2 years. Things were really good up until I gave birth to our baby girl. Ever since I haven't felt close with him, he wants to have sex ans be close but I never want to. I sometimes make myself just to make him happy. We fight a lot, over stupid crap. I feel emotionally drained. I have no sorrow, sympathy, or happiness for him. I don't want us to separate, but I don't know how to fix this. Some days I really wana leave so I can find someone that will make me happy again. And then other days he tries so hard to make me happy I feel like a total bitch so I guilt myself into staying.


Ughh I feel mentally depressed. What are your opinions on this. Please be nice, but honest.

Go see someone.
First start seeing someone who can help you mentally, like a therapist.
And consider going on medicine for depression since it sounds worse than a therapist can help.
It sounds like possible Postpartum Depression.

It sounds like depression and I've heard of a LOT of women feeling that way for a time after giving birth. I went through it too. Things will get better!

But my daughter turns 1 in 2 weeks. I don't think its post partum.

Quoting D'Raes Mommy[;:" But my daughter turns 1 in 2 weeks. I don't think its post partum."

I was diagnosed with PPD when my daughter was 11 months.

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It could've started months ago or days ago, still considered ppd. I was diagnosed when my son was 10ms.... I was in denial and tried to take care of it myself until that point :-/

I had no idea you could get it that late. I will for sure talk to a therapist then. Thank u!

Quoting D'Raes Mommy[;:" But my daughter turns 1 in 2 weeks. I don't think its post partum."

postpartum can be up to two years later.

I feel the same way towards my SO when I don't take my anti depressant.. lol. I want to just smack him sometimes because of it.

Maybe you're just not happy, you've lost the attraction. It happens ALL the time.
I've been in this situation, I didn't even want to kiss BD.. let alone have sex with him. I left him, which was really really hard. But I found my happiness!

I don't think it's PPD... you're just NOT happy.

Quoting D'Raes Mommy[;:" But my daughter turns 1 in 2 weeks. I don't think its post partum."

It does sound like depression, though. Of course, we're not professionals or anything. But I have lots of personal experience with depression. Go see a counselor/therapist/psychiatrist, and start taking omega 3's (I found 1200mg EPA & 600mg DHA to be helpful), stress B complex, and vitamin D (I take 5000-10000 IU). I take B12 too. I was on antidepressants for years, getting progressively less effective, when I went to see a naturopath, weaned off of them, and now that is what I take. It's way more effective than the antidepressants ever were. (There is research to support this, as well; you can look it up) But I'm not a medical professional etc etc.
I hope things get better for you!