sex

I just had my baby & im healing of course & got to deal with 6 weeks of no sex  but I feel guilty for my bf cuz he cant get any 4 a while. what are some things I can do to please him other than just a blow job? im curious also if u can have anel sex since pretty much your not torn up from delivering in that area. iv never done it b4 so im wondering if its even worth my time to try it for him?

I would not try anal when vag was still sore.

I'd think that anal sex might hurt just as much. There is also hand jobs, and you could let him smurf your breasts.

You just pushed a baby out....he should be more worried about YOU and your HEALING body than you worrying about him not getting any!

Also I hope he's not pressuring you for anal sex when you are still sore down there. Anal sex is normally very painful if you don't do it right. I would never want to attempt it right after giving birth.

Quoting Younggrasshper:" You just pushed a baby out....he should be more worried about YOU and your HEALING body than you worrying about him not getting any! "

hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol!

Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "

He has a hand. Don't feel guilty.

Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "

I wouldn't feel guilty at all, and I've had 2 kids. My husband was willing to wait even longer than 6 weeks if that's what I needed.

Anal hurts i tried i mean i could handle it after a few weeks if he went slow but i normally stuck to blow jobs lol.

Quoting SniperWolfMandy:" I'd think that anal sex might hurt just as much. There is also hand jobs, and you could let him smurf your breasts."

lol my mother told me the breast part especially when they are filled with the milk & hard lol I just cant figure how to position with my breasts lol.

Quoting Jessica Styles:" lol my mother told me the breast part especially when they are filled with the milk & hard lol I just cant figure how to position with my breasts lol."

He sits on top of you and puts his thing in between and you use your hands to keep it there while he smurfs your boobs. It's really simple.

Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "

He has a hand, 6 weeks isn't that long he'll be fine. Worry about yourself and healing.

Quoting SniperWolfMandy:" Also I hope he's not pressuring you for anal sex when you are still sore down there. Anal sex is normally ... [snip!] ... there. Anal sex is normally very painful if you don't do it right. I would never want to attempt it right after giving birth."

he isnt pressuring me about it but he does keep asking and i didnt know if i could or not while healing so i nev knew what to say to his question if i could or couldnt.

Quoting Jessica Styles:" he isnt pressuring me about it but he does keep asking and i didnt know if i could or not while healing so i nev knew what to say to his question if i could or couldnt. "

Maybe it's my hormonal pregnant side saying this but... ya tell him that he's going to have to wait for that. Anal sex is NOT pleasurable at first. It hurts terribly without any other soreness down there. It just seems like he's being kind of inconsiderate asking for that. He would never want someone to smurf him in the ass probably because it's painful. Believe me no amount of lube will help.

Quoting Younggrasshper:" I wouldn't feel guilty at all, and I've had 2 kids. My husband was willing to wait even longer than 6 weeks if that's what I needed. "

lol thats what makes me feel guilty though he is being so sweet & waiting for me to heal and the other thing is how he has been here 4 me through pregnancy and in hospital and its not even his child. thats what else that makes me feel a lil bad 4 him lol