I feel so discouraged. I have been 1 cm dilated for 3 weeks now, haven't lost my plug, have no signs of labor at all other then the BH I get all the time but not long enough or close enough to be anything labor causing. Has this happened to anyone else and if it did, what was your outcome? I am just super impatient and so DONE being pregnant!
You can go from 0 to 10 lickety split. Getting checked is so unhealthy IMO because it adds stress that accomplishes nothing. The best thing you can do is relax and trust your body. Trust me, pregnancy is nothing in comparison to having a kiddo the rest of your life. You'll get there! Trust me, this pregnancy (#2) has already been miserable but it'll end when it ends.