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im so sorry hun, i hope things get better eityher with or without him, thats no way to talk to anyone

Wow... Your DH is a douche bag. I really hope you get the job and can get away from him, because you deserve so much better than that. Sorry your going through this.

Wow, I'm sorry you are living like that.

Even if you don't get this job, I would look for another one. You need the stability of being able to care for yourself.

You can do it as a single mom! I became a single mom (I only had one baby at the time) and landed an awesome job (I was a sahm) nd then met the man of my dreams after my divorce.

Be confident, mamma. You don't deserve to be treated like garbage, and you don't want you kids growing up thinking that this is how a man should treat a woman.

He's being extremely harsh. He sounds like a giant crusty smurf tbh. Find your own insurance? You're carrying his child FFS.

Unless he's willing to go to counseling, I don't see how anyone could stand to be with such a person. I'm sorry  

Good luck on your interview.

That's not right. He's an ungreatful smurf from the sounds of it. Smh. I'd be leaving him, you nor your kids don't need to be around that. Smh. I'm sorry he seems to think so low of you. I can't stand a guy like that.

wow. Seems to me like he's been talking to someone that put those ideas in his head if he had told you before to SAH and he'd take care of you and all of a sudden he doesn't agree with it?
I'm sorry, he went about that completely wrong with you and definitely could have shared his feelings on the matter in a much less hateful way.  

What a smurfing dick  

If you get a desktop and a landline hardwired to it you can get a work at home job through quite a few customer service places. That's what i'm doing so I can go back to work immediately after the baby is born, because i'm single.

GET OUT NOW.....any way you can. please trust me. I went through this EXACT thing and it just got worse and worse

<blockquote><b>Quoting ¡Haute!:</b>" He's being extremely harsh. He sounds like a giant crusty smurf tbh. Find your own insurance? You're ... [snip!] ... to go to counseling, I don't see how anyone could stand to be with such a person. I'm sorry   Good luck on your interview."</blockquote>




  if my DH said that to me I'd be looking to make my way out too.
Good thing he is living in today's day, if this was 50+ years ago he wouldn't get a choice! You deserve better and he has the right to say what he wants you should say what you want. He doesn't have to be an ass about it, even if he is stressed that bringing home the bacon is all on him. Your DD's care throughout the day is all on you! I'm sorry momma.

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Quoting Addi's Momma:" Thanks ladies. I really hope I get the job. I just had to get this all out. Apparently, he has felt this ... [snip!] ... he has felt this way for 3 years and didn't want to say anything because I would get my feelings hurt and be mad at him."

Good luck honey... what he is saying is really abusive. I hope you can land the job and get some independence. Stay strong for you and those babies!

Sounds to me like you should had got rid of his loser ass a long time ago. I truly hope you get that job & are able to leave him. No one should have to live with a person like that whether he was joking or not, that was a dick move.

What a douche. You & your babies deserve better than that. Not sure if I misread this but...how exactly can he be mad at you for being there for the birth of your daughter? I mean, you kind of had no choice in that matter considering you were the one pushing her out.

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