Quoting Mummy :" Thank you, I'm just stressed out with the situation, I just want a simple yes or no as to weather he ... [snip!] ... couldn't care less. I won't take what he says literal and I will for sure not tell LO. I just hope this comes to some end soon."
You are welcome. I know how you feel. My ex has been in and out of my sons life for the passed 3ish years. I used to be so fed up and upset about everything, but then slowly, I let it go. I didnt tell my son when he was coming. I still dont. My son knows that daddy is too busy with other stuff to bother seeing him or calling him. He is soon to be 6, and he knows that I will be here for him. And he knows that I will take care of him.
Does he love his dad? Yeah. Does he know that daddy lets him down? Yeah. Does it hinder him right now? Not really. He gets mad but then he cuddles up with me and talks to me about everything. The only reason I dont want to take my ex back to court is because I dont want my ex to have him more than 24 hours... and I dont want him to see the abuse that happens in that house.
Just worry about everything else besides him. One day it will bite him in the ass.