re: Relationship Question.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" if any chick that I didn't like randomly showed up at my house I would've told her to get lost whether ... [snip!] ... his life, but I wasn't going to let that bullsmurf drama in mine or my kids lives and he choose to keep her out of his as well "</blockquote>




See, I wasn't living with him at the time. I had stayed the weekend with him & she just shows up out of no where. She knocked on his bedroom door then opened it. She was like hey what's up, but then saw me. I said hi, waved, smiled & all. She looked at me like I was stupid, closed the door & walked out. That made me uncomfortable, but I was like umm okay? After I moved in is when she started causing problems between us.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's Mommy ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" if any chick that I didn't like randomly showed ... [snip!] ... out. That made me uncomfortable, but I was like umm okay? After I moved in is when she started causing problems between us."</blockquote>




Ya that would be completely awkward and weird, i don't blame ya for being uncomfortable i would too. Tell him that it is a deal breaker and she needs to go

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's Mommy ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... awkward and weird, i don't blame ya for being uncomfortable i would too. Tell him that it is a deal breaker and she needs to go"</blockquote>




It was. I talked to him about it. He told her not to call, but if she wanted to talk just talk to him on facebook. He told me to contact her via facebook & tell her the same thing...I did & she called 10 minutes later from her work phone & told him not to tell me it was her. So yeah, I'm pretty livid at the moment.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's Mommy ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's ... [snip!] ... she called 10 minutes later from her work phone & told him not to tell me it was her. So yeah, I'm pretty livid at the moment."</blockquote>




Wow what a bitch, glad he told ya that it was her, that crossed the line completely just by trying to get him to lie to you. I'm sorry, I hate girls like that, it just shows they have no respect for the relationship

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's Mommy ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... by trying to get him to lie to you. I'm sorry, I hate girls like that, it just shows they have no respect for the relationship"</blockquote>




She doesn't have respect for us at all. He told her they won't be talking anymore, but I really don't believe that...she will find a way to come back into his life & cause more problems.

Hell no, I'd find her address and beat a bitch ass!!!

i would not tolerate him contacting her anymore. I also would have no problem not contacting someone who was trying to cause problems with my relationship.
I told my husband he could continue to contact his mom but i wouldn't be around bc she was constantly starting stuff between us. She was sending me threatening texts and voicemails. she then tells everyone that i am the one doing it. all i would do is ask her to stop and tell her that she is harassing me. she would say oh grow up. long story. anyway he chose me b/c he doesn't want problems

<blockquote><b>Quoting one of each 4 me:</b>" i would not tolerate him contacting her anymore. I also would have no problem not contacting someone ... [snip!] ... and tell her that she is harassing me. she would say oh grow up. long story. anyway he chose me b/c he doesn't want problems"</blockquote>




He sounds like a damn good man. He chose you over his mom & I can't even get it through SO's head that this girl is trouble. She has removed him from her page twice now & tried to say I hacked his page & deleted her. The first time was like, well that's childish. But to try it a second time? Wtf is wrong with his brain...