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Losing my baby boy/Rude people

posted 18th Jan
So I posted this photo yesterday on my facebook page
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152413271620542&set=a.10152119414555542.908327.535225541&type=1&theater¬if_t=like

Well basically I was talking about the loss of my son and how I am now thankful to be blessed to carry my baby girl this far. I didn't expect it to go viral like it did, but in going viral here comes the negative and rude people. It really kills me to know there are so many negative people in this world. Its the reason why it's in shambles like it is. I had people saying everything from I look dumb and uneducated and too young to be having a baby to im just doing it for attention and more food stamps and i'm just another young black girl having a baby out of wedlock. Its silly how people can judge a person just by a picture. I am actually 25 years old engaged to be married I work and on top of that I go to school for Early Childhood Education. My home is not broken and I will not be another statistic. I mean at first it kind of hurt my feelings to see how rude people actually are but then I thought about it. I'm doing what I do for my babygirl and not others. Has anyone else ever encountered rude people like this.?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ladson, South Carolina
posted 18th Jan
make the pic private.
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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria
posted 18th Jan
People are smurfs. Time will prove them wrong. When I was pregnant with my second, everyone told me to get an abortion because my life situation wasn't "ideal" and I was way too young. I was 22 FFS and I have a 3 year old. But now I have both my kids with me all the time and things have never been better. F*** the haters lol.
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I have 2 kids & live in Poland
posted 18th Jan
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But ignore them! You know how your living and not them. It doesn't matter what they think. People always need someone else to talk smurf about. They get bored or hate their life an take it out on other people.
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I have 3 kids & live in Greenville, South Carolina
posted 18th Jan
I am so sorry for your loss.. Congrats on this little one.. Best Wishes to you and baby girl.
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I have 4 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Oxford, Georgia
posted 18th Jan
When I was WORKING in retail, some lady asked me if I had gotten pregnant just to receive welfare. And DH and I get told all of the time how young we look to have a baby, he's 29 and I'm 21. I know I'm young, but with the age gap between us it was either wait until he's in his 30's, or me be young. I just dust it off, they aren't in charge of what I do.
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I have 1 child & live in Michigan
posted 18th Jan
don't worry about them. Can I ask why you have over 4000 friends on there though? Cut out all the bullsmurf people you don't even know and it will be better
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Blythe.:" don't worry about them. Can I ask why you have over 4000 friends on there though? Cut out all the bullsmurf people you don't even know and it will be better"


Holy smurf.   I have like 200 friends lol. And no one is allowed to request me.
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I have 2 kids & live in Poland
posted 18th Jan
Ignore them. If you don't want the rude comments I would 1 set the picture to only friends and not have 4,000 friends on your page
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I have 1 child & live in Illinois
posted 18th Jan
People are smurfs, you'll always have somebody judging you or saying nasty things about you no matter what you do. And the Internet only makes it worse. The only thing you can do is ignore it and rise above. I'm sorry for your loss.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
posted 18th Jan
I am 34 and just had my 4th baby 5 weeks ago. I have been married for 15 years to the same person. I have had stingers in the store ask me if all the kids were mine. When I said yes she asked well are you going to have your tubes tide. I was like wtf No I am not. Don't worry about what other people. There are some STUPID people out there...
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I have 4 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Oxford, Georgia
posted 18th Jan
There's always going to be someone with something negative to say. You know what is important in your life and that's all that matters. Those strangers who have nothing better to do than sit down at their computer and hate have nothing on you. Congratulations!!! AND you look gorgeous!  
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I'm TTC since August '11, have 1 child & live in Ottawa, Ontario
posted 18th Jan
delete the inappropriate comments and focus on the TONS MORE comments about congratulations and good lucks.
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I have 3 kids & live in Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Thank you all for your comments and advice   really appreciate it. And to answer the question about to over 4000 friends, I used to do a lot of modeling/music video work, so it was mainly to network but then I deleted all the model pics and what not and started trying to delete friends its a lot of work... so I just left them there.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ladson, South Carolina
posted 18th Jan
Put it on private. When you post things in a public manner you open yourself up to comments. Also, don't respond back to negative comments. You only fuel fights by doing that and sink to the same level they are at.
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