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re: abortion? so confused

posted 18th Jan
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Well you asked and he wont give you a reply. And I think leaving it at that will be a good thing. Kinda like a clean break. You gotta get your kids back, and this would only hold you back. "

this is true, i guess i just wanna hear that he's ok with it too i guess.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:" this is true, i guess i just wanna hear that he's ok with it too i guess."


I know. Its going to be hard. That is a given. I want to just give you a hug and hold your hand through all of this.
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posted 18th Jan
Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:</b>" He asked me how much it's going to ... [snip!] ... what he's thinking is pretty clear. He wants the abortion too and feels bad about it. But it doesn't sound like he wants a kid."

he said he thinks the abortion is best since he's being deployed for a year soon.. he said if things where different we might be having a different conversation.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I know. Its going to be hard. That is a given. I want to just give you a hug and hold your hand through all of this. "

thanks mama <3 ias much as i know i need to do it, i just wanna cry and run far away and keep the baby safe  
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:</b>" he said he thinks the abortion is best since he's being deployed for a year soon.. he said if things where different we might be having a different conversation."</blockquote>




That sucks cause he sounds like a decent dude but he is right.
You and your current children deserve the best, I just don't think bringing another baby in this world right now is it. I'm so sorry cause I know you said you do want more children eventually. I wish I could hug you right now. It's not an easy choice but it makes you such a strong person to out your children above yourself.
It's still your choice but if you ever need someone to talk to PM me or PT me.
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I have 1 child & live in Beach Haven, New Jersey
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:</b>" he said he thinks the abortion is ... [snip!] ... person to out your children above yourself. It's still your choice but if you ever need someone to talk to PM me or PT me."

thanks mama.
he is an AMAZING guy.
And he is very much right.
I know he wouldn't wanna miss out on even just a small part of a childs life that he had... I also feel horrible him paying for it even though i mean he DID help create the baby. I've been trying to think of ways i could keep the baby and still get things sorted with my current kids and there just doesn't seem to be any way.. I thought of selling my baking or even making bows, tutus and stuff to sell but it wouldn't be enough to support 3 kids.. well i mean i would get child support from my current kids dads but that's not enough. All i can think about is the beautiful baby we would make..

Is it possible to separate the head from the heart so i can just do the right thing?
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:" thanks mama. he is an AMAZING guy. And he is very much right. I know he wouldn't wanna miss out on even ... [snip!] ... is the beautiful baby we would make.. Is it possible to separate the head from the heart so i can just do the right thing?"

Sadly, no.   I just want to hug you. I know how it feels. <3
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posted 18th Jan
NOT TO SUND HARSH, BUT YOU HAD SEX, GOT PREGNANT, DO NOT KILL A BABY BECASUE OF YOUR DECISION. GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION. BABIES ARE ALIVE, THERE HEARTS BEAT, ABORTION IS STOPPING YOUR BABIES HEART. SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A BABY AND CANT, PLEASE WILL YOU CONSIDER ADOPTION. DONT KILL A CHILD BECAUSE YOU MADE A CHOICE TO HAVE IRRESPONSIBLE SEX.
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I live in Japan
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Cassi Marie:" NOT TO SUND HARSH, BUT YOU HAD SEX, GOT PREGNANT, DO NOT KILL A BABY BECASUE OF YOUR DECISION. GIVE IT ... [snip!] ... HAVE A BABY AND CANT, PLEASE WILL YOU CONSIDER ADOPTION. DONT KILL A CHILD BECAUSE YOU MADE A CHOICE TO HAVE IRRESPONSIBLE SEX."

OMG. LOOK AT ME I AM GOING TO YELL... RAWR RAWR RAWR....

Seriously. She is not going to do adoption. She had sex. She is making a tough decision. Dont be a dick. Oh and please tell me how wonderful adoption is? Please?
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posted 18th Jan
STOPPING A BABIES HEART OVER A CHOICE TO HAVE SEX THAT IS FOR REPRODUCING ADOPTION IS A GOOD CHOICE. BABY DID NOTHING WRONG. IM AGAINST ABORTION JUST CAUSE IT IS A SELFISH ACT. LOOK AT IT AS YOUR DOING SHOULDNT KILL A BABY, GIVE A WOMAN WHO CANT GET PREGNANT OR HAVE CHILDREN A CHANCE TO BE A MOM. IN THE END WHETHER SHE STOPS HER BABIES HEART IS HER CHOICE. IM NOT A BIBLE THUMPER, BUT IF YOU DONT WANT KIDS HAVE SAFE SEX, TAKE PRECAUTIONS, IF NTO PREPARE TO GET PREGO BUT DONT KILL OVER YOUR CHOICE. IM JUST AGAINST KILLING OF SOMETHING INNOCENT. Quoting Saffy Sly:" And unfortunately, this is probably going to turn into a "You should do an adoption instead. ABORTION ... [snip!] ... ABORTION IS BAD" because it's not in the safety of Abortion Survivors. You can repost it there if you'd rather not have that."
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I live in Japan
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Cassi Marie:" "



It is not her job to provide a barren woman with a child. Good for you that you are against abortion. Good for me knowing the difference between a baby and a clump of cells.
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posted 18th Jan
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Sadly, no.   I just want to hug you. I know how it feels. <3 "

thanks mama <3
i'm so heartbroken
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:" thanks mama <3 i'm so heartbroken"

I know you are. I remember that feeling <3 Again, you are welcomed to pm me at ANYTIME. When you find out when you are going to PP, Im going to PM you my cell phone number so, you can fiddle with your phone and talk to me when you are int here.
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posted 18th Jan
Quoting Cassi Marie:" NOT TO SUND HARSH, BUT YOU HAD SEX, GOT PREGNANT, DO NOT KILL A BABY BECASUE OF YOUR DECISION. GIVE IT ... [snip!] ... HAVE A BABY AND CANT, PLEASE WILL YOU CONSIDER ADOPTION. DONT KILL A CHILD BECAUSE YOU MADE A CHOICE TO HAVE IRRESPONSIBLE SEX."

hey i can yell too

IT'S NOT MY JOB TO PROVIDE A KID TO SOMEONE WHO CAN'T HAVE ONE WHEN THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF KIDS IN FOSTER CARE AND I DON'T WANT TO RECOVER FROM A CSECTION TO A BABY I'M NOT KEEPING AND HAVE THAT CONSTANT REMINDER ALONG WITH 50 OTHER REASONS I POSTED EARLIER
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
posted 18th Jan
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I know you are. I remember that feeling <3 Again, you are welcomed to pm me at ANYTIME. When you ... [snip!] ... going to PP, Im going to PM you my cell phone number so, you can fiddle with your phone and talk to me when you are int here. "

Thanks mama <3 you are awesome!
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Toledo, Ohio
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