re: abortion? so confused

Quoting Artie Russell:" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" It's not the obligation of women who ... [snip!] ... Okay everyone has their opinions she can do what she please she asked for options an I gave mine there #enufsaid"

And both you and the other poster threw up the anti-choice guilt trip of "you are so lucky you can get pregnant, there are women out there who can't".

It's bullsmurf, illogical and not relevant to the conversation.

And she's already said adoption is not a viable option for her so you pro-birthers can STFU.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Okay good. I've seen them shame girls out of aborting and out of adoption....It's pathetic. The one ... [snip!] ... to remember is, stay strong. If you ever need to talk, just PM me....I'm usually around a computer most of the day and night."

Yeah! I have seen teh same things.

If you need to talk OP. you can pm me at any time <3

Goodness all this madness for an opinion I'm not about to argue over someone else's issues I have my own she can do a she pleases not worried about no ones unborn but mine oh yeah I wanted to stoop low to the female above my head but I'm not the one totals crap online by now smdh

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" It's not the obligation of women who can reproduce to do so for those who can't. If they want children ... [snip!] ... can't. If they want children to raise, there are thousand waiting in foster care around the U.S. that are waiting for a home."</blockquote>




I never said it was a obligation! I was just putting my opinion in. If she didn't want to abort but didn't feel as though she could support the baby that there was option. Thats all I was implying.

I love how all the pro adoption people have gone through placing a baby for adoption. Yeah its the best thing in the world to do. And its easy. Just like having an abortion.  ... None of those options are hard. Despite what people say about abortion and adoption.

Quoting Artie Russell:" Goodness all this madness for an opinion I'm not about to argue over someone else's issues I have my ... [snip!] ... unborn but mine oh yeah I wanted to stoop low to the female above my head but I'm not the one totals crap online by now smdh"

     gtfo then.

Stoop low? You stooped low when you completely disregarded what the OP said about not wanting to go through adoption just so you could continue to push your pro-birth opinion on her.

I personally would tell the dad - even if you are still going through with the abortion. He might be a great support system for you.

I'm new with this thing so I'm all confused on the posting so if I put this in the wrong place I'm sorry LOL. But yeah it's rough. We all make mistakes. They tell you at the abortion clinic to take some time before you decide on terminating the pregnancy..it may seem cruel but ACTUALLY it saves some babies that way. My friend was about to go threw with hers and went in and changed her mind right before they started the procedure. It's rough on telling the Dad or not..REALLY is. But that's your choice. I told the guy that impregnated me purposely (obviously not with my consent), and he didn't even say well maybe I'm not not Dad why do you think it's me...nah he said ok! He gave me the money in full to pay for the abortion so in a sense I think this guy wanted to ruin my life. He even gave me what he called "extra shopping cash" to rub it in. This is why it's hard to tell the father cause you don't know how they will react.

Quoting ~Miss Skellington~:" I don't care if it turns to that :/ I know what it right for my family and that's all that matters. I ... [snip!] ... should think about it for a few days, i was also thinking about seeing what he wants but again, he's stationed 3500 miles away."

Take some time to think about it but do what is best for you. My childrens father moved 1500 miles away and it totally sucks....he NEVER sees them and barely talks to them.....if you want to keep the baby, don't base your decision solely on him living that far away is all im saying...you need to do what's best for YOU

Quoting Melissa Heidenescher:" I'm new with this thing so I'm all confused on the posting so if I put this in the wrong place I'm sorry ... [snip!] ... called "extra shopping cash" to rub it in. This is why it's hard to tell the father cause you don't know how they will react."

Its not a baby.... a baby is what you hold after giving birth. If she gave birth right now it would not come out crying.. it wouldnt be a baby.  

I could jump into this debate over adoption vs abortion, but I'll bite my tongue.

I do think the father has a right to know what you are considering doing. Yes, I've heard the "it's her body" argument.. but he is the father. I'll never for the life of me understand why some of us women seem to forget men (should) have equal rights to a baby, fetus, child, etc when they're the father.

Quoting Brandi Rodrick:" I could jump into this debate over adoption vs abortion, but I'll bite my tongue. I do think the father ... [snip!] ... why some of us women seem to forget men (should) have equal rights to a baby, fetus, child, etc when they're the father. "

Because they do not have to carry the child. That is why. I dont forget, men have no uterus to implant the baby in to carry it if they wanted it.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Because they do not have to carry the child. That is why. I dont forget, men have no uterus to implant the baby in to carry it if they wanted it. "

And women have no sperm to use when they want a baby. I just believe in equal rights I suppose.

*shrugs*