Argh I dunno....

So my fiancé went out to the pub with his "mates" last night. He got a phone call around 3 in the afternoon, and whenever I walked past him, he would turn and walk the other way. Around 4pm he started to get ready. Had a shower, shave and what not. Usually he will just have a quick shower and not worry if he's unshaven. Then when he was getting dressed he wore a nice pair of shorts and collared shirt, which he changed about 3 times before he found the right one.....once again, he usually doesn't care what he looks like when he's going out with the boys. BUT then when he came to say goodbye to me, I noticed he was wearing after shave. This smurf smells SO good, and it's pretty expensive. He knows how much I love it, and only wears it whenever we have our very rare date nights. He then told me that he was going to stay at his mates place the night, so he could have a few more drinks and not risk driving home. I was all like "ok, love you have a good night" then he was out the door.
I never really thought too much about it, until he came home at 6:30am this morning. I was sitting up on the couch feeding our 3 week old son. He walked in the door just wearing his shorts, with his shirt in his hands. He walked straight past me to the laundry to drop his shirt in the wash. He has lost a lil weight lately, and his shorts hang just below the elastic of his briefs, so you can usually see the top of them sticking out. Anyways when he walked past me I noticed he didn't have any briefs on.....like WTF!!!
I don't want to accuse him of anything until I have some kind of proof. But does it seem suss, or am I just being paranoid?

Did you ask why his underwear were MIA

Where we're they at  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" Did you ask why his underwear were MIA"</blockquote>


No I didn't ask. I didn't want to think about it, and just wanted to get back to bed with LO as we had a rough night. I might ask him about it now actually.

<blockquote><b>Quoting J&T+3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" Did you ask why his underwear were MIA"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... to think about it, and just wanted to get back to bed with LO as we had a rough night. I might ask him about it now actually."</blockquote>



Do it. That's effed up  

Yeah that sounds suspect...getting all fancy then coming home with no underwear? Yeah, I'm asking some questions.

I wouldnt accuse him of an;ything, just say "Why were you not wearing underwear when u got home?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" I wouldnt accuse him of an;ything, just say "Why were you not wearing underwear when u got home?"</blockquote>




You're a better person then I am because I would have been all over my DHs ass about it!! I mean who gets all dressed up for boys night and then co e home without undies?? O.o

Quoting Rette Mich:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" I wouldnt accuse him of an;ything, just say ... [snip!] ... have been all over my DHs ass about it!! I mean who gets all dressed up for boys night and then co e home without undies?? O.o"

i told DH that if he ever pulled something like that, i'd beat the truth out of him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" I wouldnt accuse him of an;ything, just say "Why were you not wearing underwear when u got home?"</blockquote>


I pretty much just asked that. He can and sat down next to me and I said "so when you came home this morning, were you wearing underwear"?
He answered me straight out and said "no". He said him and his mate went swimming last night. He borrowed his mated boardies, but wore his briefs underneath. I gave him a razed eyebrow kinda look, he looked back at me, smirked, then said "na i left them at cassandras" jokingly. i slapped him either way   He went and got the, out of the laundry to prove to me that they were wet. They were soaked and did smell like chlorine, but who's to say he was with his mate KWIM?

<blockquote><b>Quoting LilyRain12:</b>" i told DH that if he ever pulled something like that, i'd beat the truth out of him."</blockquote>




I tell mine he can kiss his balls goodbye! And if he pulled it with us having a 3 week old? He can just give his ass a sweet kiss becaus he'll need to be kissing it goodbye!

Quoting J&T+3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" I wouldnt accuse him of an;ything, just say ... [snip!] ... to prove to me that they were wet. They were soaked and did smell like chlorine, but who's to say he was with his mate KWIM?"

IT sounds like he could be telling the truth if you have no other reason not to trust then then i say let it go

Quoting Rette Mich:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LilyRain12:</b>" i told DH that if he ever pulled something ... [snip!] ... if he pulled it with us having a 3 week old? He can just give his ass a sweet kiss becaus he'll need to be kissing it goodbye!"

exactly, and his own mother would help.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" IT sounds like he could be telling the truth if you have no other reason not to trust then then i say let it go"</blockquote>


This!

I know it is weird he got dressed up. But has it been awhile since he went out? I wonder how SO feels when I randomly get dressed up to go out when I normally don't.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" IT sounds like he could be telling the truth ... [snip!] ... But has it been awhile since he went out? I wonder how SO feels when I randomly get dressed up to go out when I normally don't."

I do my makeup & dress nicer when i do my biweekly errands. lol. Im at home durimg the day with LO and i work pretty much alone at night so im usually in PJs or work clothes