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Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" How?! I've already told him to get his smurf out ... [snip!] ... too much. He needs to gtfo. He sounds shady.   if he can't even be honest about pot why would he be honest about this too?"

THHHHHHHHHHHANK YOU! he doesn't understand.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" How?! I've already told him to get his smurf out of our house, he's just acting like it's a big fat ... [snip!] ... tried to deny it, he'll even lie now, and I've told him I don't care if he smokes a bong, as long as he tells me the truth.  "</blockquote>




This makes me so sad. He sounds like my ex :/
If the y lie about the small stuff they will lie about the big stuff. My ex us ed to just laugh and make jokes the same way.
He even thought it was a joke when I broke up with him he showed up at my house recently cause he thought it was a joke.
If I were you when he passes out I would pack all his smurf and show him his way out. :/
Im so sorry you are going thru this.

Quoting bia.:" I really want to, I've looked into it, but that means it would send a code or something to his phone.."

To get his password or just because he has it set up that way? You could just wait until he's asleep and do it. I normally wouldn't tell anyone to creep, but when you have that feeling and he's being shady about other small things you sometimes have to.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" I really want to, I've looked into it, but that means it would send a code or something to his phone.."</blockquote>




Really? Does he have a contract phone or prepay?
I'm sorry you're going through this! I don't want to say too much on here but I put my number on there so text me anytime k!! <3 you are not useless you're a great person and a great mum and deserve to be respected and appreciated. I hope it's not what it seems, that just sucks balls  

no woman deserves to be treated like that especially not one that just had their baby!! OP I'm sorry he is putting you through that smurf. he knows you are catching on to what he's doing and he thinks it's funny to sit and watch you stress over it because you love and care for him, my ex used to do it and the only way I actually had proof he was doing it is because it was MY phone he was calling and texting the girls on and every time they would text or call back while I was at my parents. I would have conversations with them and ask them what was going on. I wouldn't even waste my time looking into it, I would just kick his ass out whether he found it funny or not and if he refuses to leave them have him escorted off the property by an officer.

Oh Hun I'm so sorry.

All I can say is men are pigs.

I hope he isn't cheating on you but it sounds like he is, ask him straight out and of he doesn't give you a straight answer I would pack my stuff and move on. No girl deserves to be lied to or cheated on.

Message me if you need anything.

Dang hun i hope he isn't up to no good  
This is sooo beyond ridiculous that he is treating the mother of his child this way!

Babe, don't upset yourself...I can see why you're upset - I would be going mental too-but maybe he isn't doing anything wrong. Maybe that's why he's laughing it off?
You guys need to talk it out....its not fair that you've been feeling this way for so long.

I'm here if you need to talk <3

I'm so sorry hun, that sounds like a really smurffy situation   I really really hope that it's not what it looks like, but it sounds like it is   He sounds like a smurf head. You deserve better.
If you need to vent, I have experience in cheating douchebags. PM if you need to talk x

You haven't text meeeeee!

Quoting ♥ PUFFIN ♥:" Babe, don't upset yourself...I can see why you're upset - I would be going mental too-but maybe he isn't ... [snip!] ... You guys need to talk it out....its not fair that you've been feeling this way for so long. I'm here if you need to talk <3"

Maybe that's true, I dunno!

We woke up this morning and I was making Ruby a bottle and I could hear him talking some bullsmurf, so I went in there and asked him to repeat him self, he wouldn't so I said "oh are you going to pack your stuff" cause that's what it sounded like, and he goes "yup" left for 40 mins (that's another story, his friend has stolen our other car, we cant find him) comes back, packs all his smurf up, so when I asked him if we were over, he said no....

He's still here, outside somewhere, we've talked a little bit, I feel like it's all in my head because of his past, all he does is go to work and come home, it's not like he goes out and drinks with his friends, but then man I dunno   maybe it's because he looks at other females...he blames that for being in prison and looking at other guys for too long, makes you go crazy, I know men look at other girls, but why do it in front of me,it makes me crazy lol.

Quoting hobbit*:" You haven't text meeeeee!"

Sorry I was meaning to but then I kinda just went to sleep, what's your number again?   I'm too lazy to go find it!

Quoting bia.:" Maybe that's true, I dunno! We woke up this morning and I was making Ruby a bottle and I could hear ... [snip!] ... guys for too long, makes you go crazy, I know men look at other girls, but why do it in front of me,it makes me crazy lol."

His excuse for being in prison is bullsmurf. Alot of my friends have been in prison (I hang out with the wrong crowd lol) and they don't look at women any more than they did before they went in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Sorry I was meaning to but then I kinda just went to sleep, what's your number again?   I'm too lazy to go find it!"</blockquote>



Lol I waited up til like 12 incase you texted lol. 0211 818810

Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Sorry I was meaning to but then I kinda just went ... [snip!] ... again?   I'm too lazy to go find it!"</blockquote> Lol I waited up til like 12 incase you texted lol. 0211 818810"

Lol OT but that's an awesome phone number. I like numbers that are easy as to remember