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Smurf apologizing! You did nothing wrong. Your sister & mother are over reacting badly. I hope it all gets sorted out soon. Sounds nerve racking

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" Smurf apologizing! You did nothing wrong. Your sister & mother are over reacting badly. I hope it all gets sorted out soon. Sounds nerve racking"

It is! We were having such a good day, LO has been super happy all day and she's walking heaps today, then this smurf happens. I just feel like telling both of them to smurf off and come back when they have sorted their smurf out.

I think I remember reading about this when you didn't know what you were going to do with the tickets.

Honestly, if you're not mad & don't see it as either of you should apologise like you said, then just text her yourself and say that.

I guess it is hard for her because she probably knows SO is a jackass, so she's stuck in a hard place.

How was your relationship with her otherwise? It just seems too petty to let it go on from what you're saying.

I think I remember reading about this when you didn't know what you were going to do with the tickets.

Honestly, if you're not mad & don't see it as either of you should apologise like you said, then just text her yourself and say that.

I guess it is hard for her because she probably knows SO is a jackass, so she's stuck in a hard place.

How was your relationship with her otherwise? It just seems too petty to let it go on from what you're saying.

Your mom just sounds like she's fed up trying to keep the peace.

Your sister is probably miserable in her emotionally abusive relationship and until that's taken care of, everything else in her life will also be miserable.

Your mom needs to stop trying to get in the middle if things. You're both grown ass women.

Your sister needs to stop running to her mommy.

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" I think I remember reading about this when you didn't know what you were going to do with the tickets. ... [snip!] ... a hard place. How was your relationship with her otherwise? It just seems too petty to let it go on from what you're saying."

Honestly we werent even close when things were good, theres quite a big age gap and we have different fathers, so it's always put a bit of a barrier between us. We have never had that sisterly bond that normal sisters have, im more close with her kids (my niece and nephew) who are more close to my age.

Quoting Red Bottom:" Your mom just sounds like she's fed up trying to keep the peace. Your sister is probably miserable ... [snip!] ... to stop trying to get in the middle if things. You're both grown ass women. Your sister needs to stop running to her mommy."

Right?! If she thinks I have a problem with her why cant she just ask me about it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Reid:</b>" Right?! If she thinks I have a problem with her why cant she just ask me about it?"</blockquote>




I would just go on living your life as if them and their drama doesn't exist. You have more important smurf to do.

Maybe her SO wont let her go since you guys arent, he might have only let her so he wouldnt look bad

I wouldn't apologise, you did nothing wrong and you even refunded her the money that they had paid. It sounds like she is just dragging your mum into this for no reason at all, which is ridiculous. If anyone should apologise its your sister, if I reacted this was to something my brother did I would be told to grow up and sort it out between him and myself.

I hope it all works out well in the end for you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" Maybe her SO wont let her go since you guys arent, he might have only let her so he wouldnt look bad"</blockquote>




Then she should say that. It's not an excuse to act like a 15 year old.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Reid:</b>" Right?! If she thinks I have a problem with ... [snip!] ... I would just go on living your life as if them and their drama doesn't exist. You have more important smurf to do."

Damn straight, and thats exactly what I plan to do.

Quoting Misty Walls:" Maybe her SO wont let her go since you guys arent, he might have only let her so he wouldnt look bad"

Probably, all I know is she cant go anywhere without him, we have offered her help to get away from him but she wont, so nothing I can do about that.

Text her and tell her to stop dragging your mum into it. Say you're not angry but feel you have nothing to apologise for and basically to get the smurf over it.