Quoting KNZ.:" oh wow   yeah he definitely could've left that last part out   "

haha I know right.. But it's the truth. I know he's not that pleased with my body.. but if I was him I wouldn't be either?

I mean he can still get a boner just by looking at me, so I got something going on  
Even with ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL of the junk in my truck.

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I wasn't angry or upset at him.. I thought about what he said... and he said I was a 7. I thought this ... [snip!] ... so i'm covered in stretches and i'm just big in general. I wish he'd shut up when he called me a 7 and not put his foot in it."

I think if DH told me I was a 7, it would only bother me if I ever heard him saying another women was anything higher than that. (Not that he would but I'm just saying lol) That's another reason why I probably wouldn't even ask him. Although he would probably say I was a 12. Even though I'm more like a 4 or 5 to my own standards lol.

I would probably be hurt lol. But I doubt he would be honest.

DH has made it VERY clear that he doesn't like blondes. Thinks veryyyy few are attractive. Actually, only one women ever.
I'm a natural blonde. I dye my hair brown. But stopped in pregnancy because it grows too fast to keep up with. It's a light brown with tons of blonde tones and highlights going through it right now.
If I asked him right now what he would rate me as it would be low as hell, and I would be pissed because I know plenty of people that would disagree with him.

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" haha I know right.. But it's the truth. I know he's not that pleased with my body.. but if I was him ... [snip!] ... by looking at me, so I got something going on   Even with ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL of the junk in my truck. "

haha hey that's what counts  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" Curious though.. What would you rate yourselves? I think i'm like a 5.. and I think if I got in shape ... [snip!] ... is an 8. And of course it's not all about physical beauty, I mean there are so many more things that make a person beautiful."</blockquote>

I'd rate myself as a 3 physically lol I might make a post about this actually

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Curious though.. What would you rate yourselves? I think i'm like a 5.. and I think if I got in shape ... [snip!] ... is an 8. And of course it's not all about physical beauty, I mean there are so many more things that make a person beautiful."

Idk, maybe a 6? And that being generous I think.

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Curious though.. What would you rate yourselves? I think i'm like a 5.. and I think if I got in shape ... [snip!] ... is an 8. And of course it's not all about physical beauty, I mean there are so many more things that make a person beautiful."

I think I'd give myself a 7, some days a 5  

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" DH has made it VERY clear that he doesn't like blondes. Thinks veryyyy few are attractive. Actually, ... [snip!] ... would rate me as it would be low as hell, and I would be pissed because I know plenty of people that would disagree with him."

Do you dye your hair because you like it dark brown, or because he doesn't like blondes..

Why would he rate you low as hell? I just saw a picture in another post and you're freaking hot.

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" I think I'd give myself a 7, some days a 5  "

I think your closer to a 9 than you are to a 7, your body is amazing and you have a naturally pretty face.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I honestly don't think i could ever ask that question. Plus i know dude would lie. But yeah, ha, i guess ... [snip!] ... honesty..it would be a bummer to be rated lower than what you rate yourself. (not you personally, OP, i mean a 'universal you')"</blockquote>


This is me.

I wouldn't ask, but even if I did, he'd say a 10. lol. I wouldn't even give myself a 1, these days.

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Do you dye your hair because you like it dark brown, or because he doesn't like blondes.. Why would he rate you low as hell? I just saw a picture in another post and you're freaking hot. "

No, I've dyed it brown since I was 15. On an off, I change it a lot, sometimes it gets too much to keep up with, I have a smurf ton of hair.
But he is just really not attracted to blondes. Carrie Underwood is the only blonde he ever thought was pretty, He will say some celebs are just "okay" when they look like BOMBSHELLS to me, just because they are blonde. Just not his thing I guess.
He makes comments every now and then, like he can't wait till I have this baby so I will dye my hair again   He very rarely says it, but saying it once was enough

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I think your closer to a 9 than you are to a 7, your body is amazing and you have a naturally pretty face. "

well thanks  
other people always give me more than I give myself. There's just always room for improvement  

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I honestly don't think i could ever ask that question. ... [snip!] ... This is me. I wouldn't ask, but even if I did, he'd say a 10. lol. I wouldn't even give myself a 1, these days."

Mine would say that too, haha.

I value his honesty more than anything and I'm a super curious person, so I'm sure I'll ask him eventually. Unless he said I was a 1 or something, I wouldn't be upset. I know I'm not some drop dead gorgeous gal; regardless of how attractive I am to him, he'd be lying if he rated me too high. I think I'm a 4 at best, but I know he thinks I'm more beautiful than I find myself to be, so he'd probably say around 7.