he won't make me his girlfriend . plz help

me and my serious committed boyfriend and i broke up a week ago. we didnt have problems in our relationship , we had struggles but made it out stronger . Then we broke up a week ago. Nothing has changed we are still the same committed couple. but he wont say were dating yet (again) he wont take the titles. he says soon though. whats this about ? We are both 25. I am not a troll and this is not spam. Just a new member who needs advice . Ladies opinions please? Thank you

<blockquote><b>Quoting bethenny:</b>" me and my serious committed boyfriend and i broke up a week ago. we didnt have problems in our relationship ... [snip!] ... ? We are both 25. I am not a troll and this is not spam. Just a new member who needs advice . Ladies opinions please? Thank you"</blockquote>




How are you serious and committed but not dating?

Find a new man.

He isn't committed like you think he is, that's obvious.

It doesn't sound like he's all that committed to you. Sorry. I know that must be a tough pill to swallow, but if I were you, I'd let him go.

Tell him your not a booty call. There's no way you can be serious & committed without dating unless your smurf buddies or something  

He is cheating. This is his way of being able to get away with it because he can say you weren't together. Trust me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting bethenny:</b>" me and my serious committed boyfriend and i broke ... [snip!] ... who needs advice . Ladies opinions please? Thank you"</blockquote> How are you serious and committed but not dating?"</blockquote>




This!!! I'm confused!!

he is commited. Just wondering what the big deal of the title means. He says soon we will have titles again. He has a career. I understand u dont know us or know the situation but he is commited. I understand alot of women believe committed means titles thanks for opinions ..and advice .

Quoting bethenny:" he is commited. Just wondering what the big deal of the title means. He says soon we will have titles ... [snip!] ... the situation but he is commited. I understand alot of women believe committed means titles thanks for opinions ..and advice ."

No committed means he is only with you, so he wouldn't mind the title. You have to think about that. If you broke up and he doesn't want the title their is an issue with his commitment to you. That is common sense

<blockquote><b>Quoting bethenny:</b>" he is commited. Just wondering what the big deal of the title means. He says soon we will have titles ... [snip!] ... the situation but he is commited. I understand alot of women believe committed means titles thanks for opinions ..and advice ."</blockquote>




He sounds like he is 15. And honestly you kinda do too. DH and I never did titles. I mean we said we were together or whatever but we lived together. And now he is my husband because we are legally married. Not really a big deal.

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" He is cheating. This is his way of being able to get away with it because he can say you weren't together. Trust me."

and why should I trust u on it? He doesn't have time to cheat he works long shifts and barely has time for one girl. Ae both agreed no seeing other people that we are committed to eachother just nl title right now. Please explain this cheating further please. Could be so . I guess. I trust him though.

Quoting bethenny:" and why should I trust u on it? He doesn't have time to cheat he works long shifts and barely has ... [snip!] ... to eachother just nl title right now. Please explain this cheating further please. Could be so . I guess. I trust him though."

If he isn't up to something shady then he has no legitimate reason for not committing to you with labels.

However, it's possible he just doesn't like you, and is just using you for sex.

Quoting BoogsMaMa:" No committed means he is only with you, so he wouldn't mind the title. You have to think about that. ... [snip!] ... about that. If you broke up and he doesn't want the title their is an issue with his commitment to you. That is common sense"

well it has nothing to do with other girls then, it has to with committent issues.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bethenny:</b>" well it has nothing to do with other girls then, it has to with committent issues."</blockquote>




But he is a committed...