Quoting Melanied1983:" its all good... thats what her practionner even calls her lol its not harmful, and i meant it in a ... [snip!] ... my heart that she is so terrified of everything to me it doesnt seem normal because prior to her i never even held a baby lol "
I understand. My best friends DS is afraid of everything and he will be 2 in Feb. She was the same way growing up, but her DH is mean to him about it, so I guess I am a bit defensive too. Her DH calls him that, but he means it in a bad way. I grew up around lots of babies, and I was still nervous about everything when my DS was an infant. I questioned everything lol. Honestly I think I drove my doctors crazy. No one really knows how to be a parent untill they are one. Its definately a learning curve. Just hang in there hun, it will get easier with time.