Men VS Women. Future plans.

I've seen this a lot in my friends' relationships, my own. The dying question I have today is why is it okay for men to talk futuristically about a relationship, 'making plans' but when a woman does it's 'creepy' and/or 'weird'. I've never understood this. D&D  

I think this is one of those stereotypes. The "idea" is that women want to settle down, so when men talk about that women see it as a good thing. When women do it and men DON'T want to settle down, then it's clingy. Personally, I think it's all in the individual relationship.

I guess I'm lucky my husband and I both discuss future plans. We discussed wanting kids and marriage when dating too.

I think it only gets "creepy" if one person is obsessive about marriage/kids to the point of arguing about it because their SO isn't ready. I've seen both male and female be called "weird" and other choice names because of that.

my husband started talking about kids after the first "date" creep!