Quoting A&J. ♥:" If you had been dating someone for a while, but had no children, and the subject of having kids came ... [snip!] ... that. It will gross me out and then I know I'll never want to have sex with you again" Would you be offended or brush it off?"
I'd brush it off. There is a big difference between what you THINK you would do and what yuo actually want. Heck, *I* didn't want my husband in the room until I actually got pregnant. Before it's YOUR baby I think you see things differently.
Honestly, even if my husband didn't want to be there I wouldn't really care. I'd be offended if he wanted to be elsewhere (like, with friends) but just because he didn't want to be in the room? Nope. Heck, I wish I didn't have to be in the room, haha