Um...well that was unexpected.

So..I broke up with my boyfriend. He was pushing things way too quickly and it just...man. It was starting to scare the smurf out of me. At first I tried just slowing things down and going on a break and I just get all of these text messages from him, things like "But we're so good together, just come live with me, your daughter is cool with me so why can't we work this out?" Fair enough, it may have only been two weeks, but I guess that's an appropriate reaction.

Then I get absolutely FLOODED with texts from him saying "I gave you everything I was and you smurf all over it." and then suddenly saying "I'm sorry, you're right." and going back to saying "God dammit why does this always happen to me?! Smurf you."

It's been TWO WEEKS. I have never been so terrified of a breakup. Oh my goodness.

I got a call from my best friend and although he didn't ask, I knew he needed me. So I drove two hours from my ex-boyfriend's house to my old stomping grounds to see him...and as crazy as it sounds, we got together. After a year of having all of these feelings for each other and not knowing how to deal with them...having one thing or another stand in the way, it just finally clicked. The time was right. I was working so hard on something I thought I needed, and finally, we were just suddenly ready.

Now I can openly say that, not only am I completely in love with my best friend, but I get to be with him too!

I'm so happy I can't stand it.  

um..rebound maybe?!?!?! jst saying

but if you are truely happy...then congrats 

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" um..rebound maybe?!?!?! jst saying but if you are truely happy...then congrats "

I don't think you can rebound from a two week long relationship, lmao.


OP, I'm glad you're happy!! Stay away from psycho clingers, haha!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" um..rebound maybe?!?!?! jst saying but if you are truely happy...then congrats "</blockquote>




I dont think so she was with her ex for 2 weeks...and she broke up with him!

Congrats Op! I was best friends with my fiance for 2 years before w got together.

Quoting Colt's mommy:" I don't think you can rebound from a two week long relationship, lmao. OP, I'm glad you're happy!! Stay away from psycho clingers, haha!"

Lol, my point exactly. And I've been in LOVE with this guy for over a year. We just weren't ever ready at the same time. Now he's comfortable, I'm comfortable, it just happened. Idk. I'm so amazingly happy now! I've wanted this for so long.  

Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" Lol, my point exactly. And I've been in LOVE with this guy for over a year. We just weren't ever ready ... [snip!] ... Now he's comfortable, I'm comfortable, it just happened. Idk. I'm so amazingly happy now! I've wanted this for so long.  "

well then congrats to you and him.

congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stay away fron looney man i tell ya guys ae so emo now a days

Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" So..I broke up with my boyfriend. He was pushing things way too quickly and it just...man. It was starting ... [snip!] ... that, not only am I completely in love with my best friend, but I get to be with him too! I'm so happy I can't stand it.  "

I had an ex who used to do that.. we were together much longer then 2 weeks and one minute who would go on and on about how he would of gave me everything our kids were great together (kaylee was # i think and his was 4) then later it would tottally flip going on and on about how im screwed it all up etc.. he seriously did this up until about 2 months ago .. didnt comprehend that i was with someone and expecting a child.. finally hes blocked on fb and i have it so his calls and text go through on silent then i just delete them.. sad thing is hes a fine memember of our government.. and he started dating someone i knew and she told me he was completely bat smurf crazy

Aww   I'm glad you got away from that weirdo! Ya know what they say..."you marry your bestfriend"   Happy for you mama!

Yeah, red flag alert!

But I'm happy for you Darlin, I remember you talking about this best friend of yours. Seems to me like you had the last piece to your puzzle, you both just had to see it at the same time.