<blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda Bayless:</b>" Lol are there any good sites to find local women? Btw we are not married. I take marriage way more serious. I was married before but his family was in a cult..."</blockquote>
We always just brought in one of MY good friends if it was a two girls and him situation, and one of HIS friends if it was a two guys and me situation. I have endless trust in my close girlfriends and know I can trust them to be there for fun and not with alterior motives, and he feels the same with his friends. We also know hem well enough to know that they wouldn't be shady about having STDs and all that.
And there was ALWAYS protection being used for everyone in every exchange. Condoms, birthcontrol, and pulling out. We absolutely would not risk an accidental pregnancy with someone outside our relationship. Although, since we've had kids we haven had any groups sex. We've become completely monogamous.