re: Single mom of 2 with NO financial support

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Deanasoar:</b>" Same exact way that I feel.  "</blockquote> I know.. I can't even be excited"

U still have some time, ur feelings might change. I know that a few months ago I was so depressed and hated my life, but time has made things easier for me. Nothing has changed, I still don't talk to BD 1 or 2 at all but I'm starting to accept it now. Just last night I bought some outfits for my baby and today I feel some excitement. I only have 8 weeks before she's here so I better start preparing.. I think that will help me a lot

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" Hard isn't the word. I often think it'll ... [snip!] ... as a waitress but it won't cover a third of my bills. Abortion just wasn't an option but I'm feeling I made the wrong choice"

omg! This is my BD 6th kid too. He does only care about two. He has 3 BM's and I make 4!!!! I don't know who's more dumb. Me or HIM!!! His other Bm and I was pregnant at the SAME time on 2009!!! I believed in this joker. I payed for his security license so he can work. From the time I met him to now. He just found a job over the summer. I was there when he had NOTHING. He was living with me. Driving MY car. Eating my food. And he thinks he owes me nothing. I'm the dumb one. lol

We will be fine. I'm going to pray on this. Wish you lived closer.

Quoting Glamour PINK:" omg! This is my BD 6th kid too. He does only care about two. He has 3 BM's and I make 4!!!! I don't ... [snip!] ... And he thinks he owes me nothing. I'm the dumb one. lol We will be fine. I'm going to pray on this. Wish you lived closer."

The baby I'm pregnant with is BD's 5th kid, and he has a girl that is pregnant right now with his 6th. She's due 3 weeks after I am, but he's with her and I haven't talked to him since September. I know I'm not missing out on anything, but my daughter will be. Crazy how some men can be huh

Quoting Deanasoar:" The baby I'm pregnant with is BD's 5th kid, and he has a girl that is pregnant right now with his 6th. ... [snip!] ... talked to him since September. I know I'm not missing out on anything, but my daughter will be. Crazy how some men can be huh"

All this time I'm thinking bullsmurf like this only happens to me. Men aint smurf!

Quoting Glamour PINK:" All this time I'm thinking bullsmurf like this only happens to me. Men aint smurf! "

lmao I always thought the same thing! Idk anybody IRL that has 2 baby daddy's like I do, but the fact that he has 6 kids!! I thought "only I would be that stupid to let this happen to me"

Lol i guess we can all just laugh at each other!! A bunch of fools but atleast we have our kids and just have faith everything will work itself out. im done crying over this!

When they grow up and become somebody, their sperm donors will be lurking in the bushes. Their going to want these kids one day and it'll be too late. My dad waited until I was a teenager to develop a relationship with me. He failed. I was over the whole 'not having father' by then. pft!

Quoting Glamour PINK:" When they grow up and become somebody, their sperm donors will be lurking in the bushes. Their going ... [snip!] ... until I was a teenager to develop a relationship with me. He failed. I was over the whole 'not having father' by then. pft!"

Yup, cuz that's when it's supposively easy!!! My daughter told her grandma a few months ago that she hates her son (her father), and her grandma understood!

Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" Yup, cuz that's when it's supposively easy!!! My daughter told her grandma a few months ago that she hates her son (her father), and her grandma understood!"

I can relate!