re: Single mom of 2 with NO financial support

Quoting Courtney [36 weeks]:" I just don't understand how the dads can just act like their child doesn't exist. I think about my kid every second I'm not with him, and usually thats only when I'm at work."

u had 9 months of the child living inside you and u birth it. a male doesnt do any of that, not like its an excuse but its an obvious bonding factor. but i think women who focus on why the man they mated with dont wanna have nothing to do with the baby is beyond is me. you can never be the good parent your meant to be if u steady focus on trying to make a man love you and/or your child

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting jazzzzz*:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Yeah mine is the same way, oh and he says there is no possible way It's his because I found out two weeks after we had sex!"

Did anyone tell him you have to have sex to get pregnant?? LOL

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" u had 9 months of the child living inside you and u birth it. a male doesnt do any of that, not like ... [snip!] ... is me. you can never be the good parent your meant to be if u steady focus on trying to make a man love you and/or your child"

This is very well said, girl..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Courtney [36 weeks]:</b>" I just don't understand how the dads can just act like their child doesn't exist. I think about my kid every second I'm not with him, and usually thats only when I'm at work."</blockquote>




Their not the one who has to carry and nurture that child. Their child is not in their care they are with us most of the time. They don't care.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:</b>" Did anyone tell him you have to have sex to get pregnant?? LOL"</blockquote>




I don't think he understood that part when taking sex ed.

I'm about to be a single mom to 2 babies under 2 years old   My first daughter's dad isn't involved at all, but just today I got a call from CS saying that he wants a DNA test and then the process can get started on getting some $. I don't expect much though cuz he has 2 other kids that he's paying for. I make the worst decisions when it comes to the men I date. I don't think this babies father will be involved at all either. But I make decent money and my dad watches my daughter for me. Idk if he can handle 2 though. I'm still not sure what I'm gonna do about that...

Quoting Deenasoar:" I'm about to be a single mom to 2 babies under 2 years old   My first daughter's dad isn't involved ... [snip!] ... money and my dad watches my daughter for me. Idk if he can handle 2 though. I'm still not sure what I'm gonna do about that..."

I feel for you. My mom has attitude about watching my two. She wants a second job. Don't know what I'm going to do either.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" I feel for you. My mom has attitude about watching my two. She wants a second job. Don't know what I'm going to do either."</blockquote>




My mom is to busy to help. My baby sitters moved to Texas. And my bd has his mom convinced this baby isn't his so she won't help with the one I'm pregnant with. I just have faith its going to work itself out

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" I feel for you. My mom has attitude about ... [snip!] ... convinced this baby isn't his so she won't help with the one I'm pregnant with. I just have faith its going to work itself out"

I'm working on the faith part.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" I'm working on the faith part."</blockquote>




It's hard huh?

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" I'm working on the faith part."</blockquote> It's hard huh?"

Hard isn't the word. I often think it'll be easier if I give my baby up. I'm on unemployment. Who is going to hire a pregnant woman working on her
certified clinical medic assistant (CMA)? I have mortgage, car payment, insurance and one other kid. Boy O Boy what did I get myself into!? lol

Yea, faith has been the only thing getting me through all this. If anyone cares to know my story I posted a thread about it a while back.. it's been so much drama this year. I seriously thought about giving my daughter up for adoption, but I don't think I could ever do it. I need a new place to live desperately, but this town has some outrages prices for rent.. I'm talking $900 a month for a smurffy place, on top of a car payment, and probably day care for my oldest, and all my other bills... It's soooo stressfull!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" Hard isn't the word. I often think it'll be easier if I give my baby up. I'm on unemployment. Who is ... [snip!] ... medic assistant (CMA)? I have mortgage, car payment, insurance and one other kid. Boy O Boy what did I get myself into!? lol"</blockquote>




Im a stripper, I'm 20. I have a car payment, rent, utilities and I take care of my first im literally so stressed my hair is falling out. I haven't been able to work since I am so sick. I feel like I'm setting my babies up to fail because I'm a loser. This is bd's sixth baby and he only cares about two. Luckily an old boss gave me a job back as a waitress but it won't cover a third of my bills. Abortion just wasn't an option but I'm feeling I made the wrong choice

Quoting jazzzzz*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glamour PINK:</b>" Hard isn't the word. I often think it'll ... [snip!] ... as a waitress but it won't cover a third of my bills. Abortion just wasn't an option but I'm feeling I made the wrong choice"

Same exact way that I feel.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Deanasoar:</b>" Same exact way that I feel.  "</blockquote>




I know.. I can't even be excited