earlier i was checked and i have been dilating and have been actively contracting for the last week. I read you can check if you are dilated more online, but its also dangerous if you dont have gloves on. Is there anyway to tell without checking like the docs do? The pressure is getting really hard to bear and everytime i go pee i feel like i have to go otherwise and have an urge to push... and it feels like he is coming down. Is is time to go in yet even though contractions arent that close together?
If you are really feeling the urge to push I'd go in. My contractions were back to back because of pitocin so I'm not sure how it would feel spaced out. My friends contractions never got closer than 6 minutes.