I hate sex

I am never in the mood to have sex, even before I was pregnant I never wanted to, SO would have to beg me. He would say well once we start you'll get in the mood, nope doesn't happen. And if for some reason I actually do want to have sex, I get so impatient and I'm so over within like 3 min after we start and I end up yelling at SO to hurry up because I get so annoyed and just want to be done. But he has such a high sex drive and mine is like non existent so it gets annoying that he always wants to and I never do.
I don't like forepplay either, I find it to be obnoxious and disgusting, even when he does stuff to me. And he gets annoyed that I refuse blow jobs.

So anyone else like this? Or am I really not normal?

I'm the same way. I don't even want to be touched. I feel so bad for SO because it's not him, I've always been like this.
I've had my hormones checked and they say nothing is abnormal. So I guess it's just a psychological thing  

I don't know but.....I feel bad for your SO.

When my sex drive is low I tell so it's an all day process to get me in the mood. I need like flirting touching etc all day.

I'm the same way. I'm starting to think maybe the problem is not being sexually attracted to SO. When me and him split up and I was seeing this other guy I had no problem having sex with him.

I'm the same way and it sucks. I feel bad for SO because he totally deserves to get his dicky sticky. Like I'm drinking tonight so I can get in the mood   it's the only time I ever am. I wish I liked sex but I just......don't.

Pretty much the same way. I've been trying to be more open about some things but it's kinda hard.

<blockquote><b>Quoting saageex3:</b>" I'm the same way. I'm starting to think maybe the problem is not being sexually attracted to SO. When me and him split up and I was seeing this other guy I had no problem having sex with him."</blockquote>




I've thought about that as well, and SO is the only guy I've ever had sex with, so maybe that's why?

Im the same way but I believe its because I was molested as a child and sex sometimes gives me flash backs and I hate that, im going to start seeing a therapist tho because I know I need to

<blockquote><b>Quoting gare bear's mommy:</b>" Pretty much the same way. I've been trying to be more open about some things but it's kinda hard."</blockquote>




It is really hard because I just have a hard time doing something sexual that I am really not into.

<blockquote><b>Quoting iisabell:</b>" Im the same way but I believe its because I was molested as a child and sex sometimes gives me flash backs and I hate that, im going to start seeing a therapist tho because I know I need to"</blockquote>




I'm sorry that happened to you  

Quoting My Widdle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting saageex3:</b>" I'm the same way. I'm starting to think maybe ... [snip!] ... I've thought about that as well, and SO is the only guy I've ever had sex with, so maybe that's why?"

SO was the only one I was with until about a month ago but I was drunk when I got with the other dude. Damn alcohol. Seriously it's the only thing that works.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:</b>" SO was the only one I was with until about a month ago but I was drunk when I got with the other dude. Damn alcohol. Seriously it's the only thing that works."</blockquote>




Lol yeah I've been with SO for over 7 years now, he's the only one I've ever had sex with and even though I love him I just feel like sometime in my life I should experience it with another guy. That sounds bad but yea, idk.

Quoting My Widdle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting gare bear's mommy:</b>" Pretty much the same way. I've been ... [snip!] ... It is really hard because I just have a hard time doing something sexual that I am really not into."

I usually just like 3-4 times a month try to just let DH have a go. But he takes foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr with foreplay and it pisses me off. I just want him to get on, get in, get off. I used to wait a long time inbetween sex just to make him cum faster  
With this pregnancy though my hormones are even worse. I can't even stand him to touch me, not even a hug. CANNOT STAND IT. Idk what is goin on. I can't even sacrifice to let him go once    he stopped complaining though. I was so sick with morning sickness and by time it got better I was in pain and had a belly.

<blockquote><b>Quoting My Widdle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting iisabell:</b>" Im the same way but I believe its because I was ... [snip!] ... im going to start seeing a therapist tho because I know I need to"</blockquote> I'm sorry that happened to you  "</blockquote>




Sometimes I forget and think it doesnt affect me but clearly I have a lot of issues and I feel bad for s/o because he cant stay away from me and I refuse to be touched its discusting to me sometimes