Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" she likes to be spoiled..she wants someone to hold her constantly, and i cant keep doing it...especially she gets pissed, she stays pissed "
It's not spoiling her, it's nurturing and comforting her & reassuring her that mommy will always be there when she needs you... i totally get the crying, trust me. my husband was deployed when my son was born.. it was just me for the first 3 months.. I was so tired i could barely function.. sometimes he would just cry and cry... but eventually you figure out what works...
for me, he LOVED when i sat on a yoga ball topless and bounced a little while shushing him.. he would snuggle up in my boobs suck on his paci and settle down.. i really didn't get things done, but taking care of the baby is more important than throwing in that extra load of laundry or cleaning the tub...
your dh needs to understand, babies don't come with manuals, or mute buttons.. it takes time to learn what she likes & get into the swing of things..
Take a step back little momma, you will get the hang of what she likes & from then on it'll be a lot easier..
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