re: FUDGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" i can see her, im sitting 5 feet away from her, but i have earphones in blaring paramore..she is fine, just crying...loudly...but its going on thirty minutes now"

30 minutes? Maybe she just wants to be comforted and held! How old are you? Blaring your music to drown out her crying...smh. I am sorry and I hate to be rude but come on! I understand getting frustrated with constant crying, been there quite abit, but you need to just remember to remind yourself she is only a baby and doesn't know any better. Shes crying because she either is tired, hungry, poopy, peed, cold, hot, or just wants comfort from her mama.

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" i can see her, im sitting 5 feet away from her, but i have earphones in blaring paramore..she is fine, just crying...loudly...but its going on thirty minutes now"

She might just be needing a cuddle. Babies need lots of those. It kind of sucks when you have a high needs infant, but then they turn into a toddler that you have to tackle as they sprint by just to get a kiss out of them. If you need to put her down in a safe place and take a break, then do it for your sanity and her safety, but do try to hold her. Close contact isn't a want to a baby, it's a basic need.

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" im so stressed out its not even funny, i have to let her cry..I HAVE TO! instead of hurting her, im going ... [snip!] ... because i love her too much to do anything. she is so innocent and did nothing wrong, but i have done everything..ugh...music!"

If you are wanting to hurt her or yourself you need to talk to someone about possible post partum depression..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addilyn's Mama ♥:</b>" If you are wanting to hurt her or yourself you need to talk to someone about possible post partum depression.."</blockquote>


 

Can you hold her while you listen to your music? That way you don't have to hear the crying, but she can still be close to you?

Quoting Addilyn's Mama ♥:" If you are wanting to hurt her or yourself you need to talk to someone about possible post partum depression.."

  OP ppd is nothing to be ashamed about, many women go through it. I would talk to your doctor about it. Especially if you feel like this often.

<blockquote><b>Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:</b>" Can you hold her while you listen to your music? That way you don't have to hear the crying, but she can still be close to you? "</blockquote>
 

Or at least hold her for 10 minutes. Walk away for 5. Repeat.

This thread is breaking my heart. I wish I was close I would come help you mama.

Quoting Blah:"   OP ppd is nothing to be ashamed about, many women go through it. I would talk to your doctor about it. Especially if you feel like this often."

i dont have ppd.

Quoting Addilyn's Mama ♥:" 30 minutes? Maybe she just wants to be comforted and held! How old are you? Blaring your music to drown ... [snip!] ... know any better. Shes crying because she either is tired, hungry, poopy, peed, cold, hot, or just wants comfort from her mama. "

music is an escape, and im nineteen if you really need to know!

Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:" She might just be needing a cuddle. Babies need lots of those. It kind of sucks when you have a high ... [snip!] ... then do it for your sanity and her safety, but do try to hold her. Close contact isn't a want to a baby, it's a basic need. "

and thats why when she wants to cuddle all she does is scream...no matter what i do she wants to scream.....its seriously making me want to jump off a smurfing ten foot building...and the thing is, my husband doesnt understand...he complains about working at taco 55 hours every two weeks...he says that my job is easy i get to sit on my ass all day and watch tv...but thats not even it! none of that is correct.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" i dont have ppd."</blockquote>

How do you know? Please don't take this the wrong way but it's not normal to let your baby cry that long or to feel like hurting her. I understand depression. I've felt those feelings. I had to get help. I had to get on meds. I feel much better now that I'm on a treatment.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" i dont have ppd."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... depression. I've felt those feelings. I had to get help. I had to get on meds. I feel much better now that I'm on a treatment."

because i have been depressed many times before and its never felt like this..it was like undeniable sadness...no matter wheat...but im not sad.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" and thats why when she wants to cuddle all she does is scream...no matter what i do she wants to scream.....its ... [snip!] ... says that my job is easy i get to sit on my ass all day and watch tv...but thats not even it! none of that is correct. "</blockquote>




My youngest was like that. My husband didn't do smurf to help and I walked around all night with him, every night, until I thought I would die from exhaustion. But I didn't. I survived, my kid survived, and now he is fifteen months old and it's all a distant, very short lived memory. Six months is nothing in your lifetime, really, even if you have to cradle and hold and rock and bounce a screaming baby for the entire six months. It will change your child's entire personality if you decide to let her cry on her back for that first six months instead of in your arms. It sucks, I know. Believe me. I'm very familiar with it. It's a huge sacrifice, but you have to give that to your baby. She needs you to hold her.

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" i dont have ppd."

I'm sorry if I offended you, it just sounded a bit like you could have it because it's not normal to feel like hurting your baby or yourself over her crying and to let her cry for 30 minutes while you drown out the cries with music.

I'm not saying that to be judgemental at all I feel bad that you are so stressed out. I know how stressful it can be. I wish you had someone that could give you a break. Your husband needs to realise you don't sit on your butt all day and he should be helping you out more.