re: FUDGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" i have a support system, dont get me wrong...but noone really helps..her own father doesnt do ANYTHING ... [snip!] ... spinny thierything...even the shushing thing she likes when i put her on my chest"

Have you tried talking to her pediatrician? If she is so fussy all the time she might have colic or something? Does she poop regularly? I ask because my son was like that and actually pooped blood when he was finally able to poop after three days.

Quoting redneck mamma:" Have you tried talking to her pediatrician? If she is so fussy all the time she might have colic or ... [snip!] ... regularly? I ask because my son was like that and actually pooped blood when he was finally able to poop after three days. "

its more constant at night and i planned on making her a doctors appointment.and not she poops just fine 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" shes loved being on her belly since she came out mine, lol. "</blockquote>


Have u tried laying her on her belly on your forearm and swaying with her? Sometimes that helps sooth babies.

This is what the 5 S's is. You wanna do all these thing at once.
"If you have tried these techniques with little success, you may want to consider Dr. Karp’s “5 S’s System.” According to Dr. Karp, to sooth a crying infant, recreating the womb environment helps the baby feel more secure and calm. Dr. Karp recommends:

• Swaddling: Tight swaddling provides the continuous touching and support your baby is used to experiencing within the womb.
• Side/stomach position: The infant is placed on their left side to assist in digestion, or on their stomach to provide reassuring support. “But never use the stomach position for putting your baby to sleep,” cautions Karp. Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is linked to stomach-down sleep positions. When a baby is in a stomach down position do not leave them even for a moment.
• Shushing sounds: These imitate the continual whooshing sound made by the blood flowing through arteries near the womb.
• Swinging: Newborns are used to the swinging motions within their mother’s womb, so entering the gravity driven world of the outside is like a sailor adapting to land after nine months at sea. “It’s disorienting and unnatural,” says Karp. Rocking, car rides, and other swinging movements all can help.
• Sucking: “Sucking has its effects deep within the nervous system,” notes Karp, “and triggers the calming reflex and releases natural chemicals within the brain.”

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" all she does is freaking cry. cry, cry, cry.... i want to rip my damn hair out! cry cry SCREAM cry cry SCREAM cry cry cry cry cry cry... WHAT THE HELL DO I DO! "

How old is she? Does she have reflux or some other condition causing her discomfort?

three months today and not that we have found, she has nothing with her

Well, take a deep breath. Babies get fussier if they sense that you're stressed out. This will not last. I promise.

<blockquote><b>Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:</b>" Well, take a deep breath. Babies get fussier if they sense that you're stressed out. This will not last. I promise. "</blockquote>


 

Do you have toys for her? Rattles ect? Maybe try playing with her to distract her.

Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:" Well, take a deep breath. Babies get fussier if they sense that you're stressed out. This will not last. I promise. "

i can see her, im sitting 5 feet away from her, but i have earphones in blaring paramore..she is fine, just crying...loudly...but its going on thirty minutes now

Quoting Addilyn's Mama ♥:" Do you have toys for her? Rattles ect? Maybe try playing with her to distract her. "

she likes to be spoiled..she wants someone to hold her constantly, and i cant keep doing it...especially she gets pissed, she stays pissed

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" she likes to be spoiled..she wants someone to hold her constantly, and i cant keep doing it...especially she gets pissed, she stays pissed "</blockquote>


Sweetie she's a baby. She spent 9 mos inside you. Please just hold her. 30 mins is a long time to let her cry. It'll make her feel More insecure thus making her cry more. Just snuggle and hold her. Soon enough she won't wanna be held anymore. Enjoy it.

Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" she likes to be spoiled..she wants someone to hold her constantly, and i cant keep doing it...especially she gets pissed, she stays pissed "

She is 3 months old! You cannot spoil a 3 month old. They just want to be loved and comforted at that age. If you fed her, changed her and all that, maybe she just wants to be held!

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" she likes to be spoiled..she wants someone ... [snip!] ... feel More insecure thus making her cry more. Just snuggle and hold her. Soon enough she won't wanna be held anymore. Enjoy it."

  30 minutes is such a long time to let a 3 month old cry. Also the longer she cries, the more worked up she will get and it will be harder to calm her down when you do go get her.

im so stressed out its not even funny, i have to let her cry..I HAVE TO! instead of hurting her, im going to hurt myself because i love her too much to do anything. she is so innocent and did nothing wrong, but i have done everything..ugh...music!