Interpret this

posted 16th Jan
I'm starting to wonder about this friendship.
My friend (I made another post about her here: http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2425788.html ) texted me today and asked me if I wanted to start walking with her. I told her sure, but it would have to be in the mornings because I go to work at 1 everyday. She said ok that was fine and asked me what day would be a good day to start.
I responded that any day was fine as long as it is after 9 AM and before 12 because before 9 I'm at the gym with my stepmom and at 12 I head off to work.
She had been texting me pretty steadily up until that point. She never responded to me about this, though. So I checked my phone to see if she even recieved the message. It showed that she had read it right when I sent it. She still hasn't responded.

She's done this about something else we were planning on doing together. She asked if she and her SO could tag along to a gathering I was going to. I said sure and she asked when it would be. I told her and she said she would talk to her SO and never responded back.

I hate, hate, HATE when people just up and quit a conversation on me right in the middle. Especially when we are planning something.

Please help me interpret this. Am I just being overly irritated over nothing or is she being flaky or something?
What would you think if you were me?
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I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia
posted 16th Jan
simplest reponse I can think of is I'd text her and ask her if she is up for it and give her a specific day since she doesn't seem to have one. Sometimes all people need is a little push...or you can just let her be and forget about it. But then that would irritate me trying to drop it, then I'd want to know why she would want to do something like that and then not..
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I have 3 kids & live in Illinois
posted 16th Jan
Maybe she asked her SO when a good day was for him after asking you if he could come, and he threw a hissy fit and now she is having a hard time responding back to you.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 16th Jan
Quoting March 2013:" simplest reponse I can think of is I'd text her and ask her if she is up for it and give her a specific ... [snip!] ... that would irritate me trying to drop it, then I'd want to know why she would want to do something like that and then not.."


I did try to text her a few times about the gathering we were supposidly going to together, but she never responded even though she read the messages. I kinda really to know because the date of the gathering is coming up quick.  
I didn't even bother trying to text her to see if she really wanted to walk after she never responded. I figured she was being flaky or something.
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I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia
posted 16th Jan
Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" Maybe she asked her SO when a good day was for him after asking you if he could come, and he threw a hissy fit and now she is having a hard time responding back to you."

That sounds logical. I get the feeling he's very controlling. He commented on a couple of my statuses on FB before and he was a jack ass. Total smart ass.
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I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia
posted 16th Jan
Quoting Minion:" That sounds logical. I get the feeling he's very controlling. He commented on a couple of my statuses on FB before and he was a jack ass. Total smart ass."


I read your linked post and he sure sounded that way from what you said there.
I hate that smurf, DH sisters BD is that way a total controlling whimp.. When she birthed her babies and ppl where congratulating her on FB he would get on right away and correct every single person and be actually can its "congrats to both of us" he kinda just like took the joy outta it.. smurfers..
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in California
posted 17th Jan
Sometimes when my best friend is really stressed out she will take days to respond to my texts...or if she gets particularly busy...do you think that's possible?
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posted 17th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:</b>" Sometimes when my best friend is really stressed out she will take days to respond to my texts...or if she gets particularly busy...do you think that's possible?"</blockquote>




Maybe so.
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I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia
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