hope this is normal

I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy yesterday..... i did have my mom sister and niece in there with me but still felt like something was missing. The donor is a POS who took off back in september so being by myself is.something ive gotteb used to.... but lately ive been wanting my husband with me (we split over a year ago tried to get back together in april but then i found out i was pregnant so it didnt work out and now his gf is pregnant) ive just felt really lonely and depressed lately.... i sat in the hospital after my friemd left last night and just cried... i know being sad is normal...... i have my kids to focus on but still feel something is missing.... i live with my parents and already not looking forward to going back to work even though its 10wks away.....

Aww I'm sorry things aren't prefect for you. At least you have your beautiful baby.

of course i think it's normal how you feel. you have had a a lot of smurf going on.

as long as you don't feel resentful towards the baby or want to harm yourself or the baby...or get so depressed you can't take care of your son...... i think you are within normal limits for being sad.

do you think so?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Angelface:</b>" of course i think it's normal how you feel. you have had a a lot of smurf going on. as long as you don't ... [snip!] ... get so depressed you can't take care of your son...... i think you are within normal limits for being sad. do you think so?"</blockquote>




No i feel no resentment to any of my kids. Just want to be the best mom i can be to all of them! And im not looking for a perfect life... kids are the closest thing to perfection there is..... i assume the feelings im having are hormones out of whack..... i waited so long for my son to be born and it flew by.... just a lot of different emotions all at once....