I had 'roids post partum and a fistula for a little while (and for all I know, it may still be there, I can't stick my head up my ass and see) as well as a smurfload of stitches. I haven't even touched myself and I was a serial masturbater through pregnancy. No. Just no.
SO has asked me a couple of times this week when my PP checkup is. My appointment is actually about eight weeks since birth. He wants to go out afterward and all that jazz... I think he expects to have the date night experience the minute I'm "cleared". You know, take a girl out, feed her, romance her a little, go back to your place and have sex all night.........
Previously when I thought about sensation and my vag, it was arousing. Now I just remember what crowning felt like. How can I stop this and get back to sexy time? lol
i won't be having intercourse for 6 months (man is gone) and i'm happy about it lol. i would feel uncomfortable having sex 6-8weeks postpartum.. i want everything to tighten a bit more lol, and be fully healed.