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I really couldn't follow that at all. Who is talking to whom in this conversation?

I'm confused..are those messages he sent her?....I'd leave...yeah you had a baby but if you are not the one he loves than you should find someone who will love you the way you deserve.

Quoting endless possibilities:" Yes   He sent her those messages"

leave, you really don't deserve to be the other woman in your relationship.

<blockquote><b>Quoting endless possibilities:</b>" I know it's confusing. The email is from someone that I don't know who it is. The convo is between him and his ex wife. But the only part where she was talking she wouldn't cut and paste right."</blockquote>



Huh? These are emails between someone you don't know and his ex?

Ok let me see if I'm understanding this someone you don't know sent you an email saying you weren't his first choice. Then send you msgs he's sent his wife (ex) but didn't sent what she said??

If I'm understanding this right I'd show him and told him you were done and leave.

didnt you say that these messages were from two years ago?!?!?!
if they were, you guys were four months into a relationship, you cant see the future.
he could be inlove with you. just because she wrote you that email. she might be jealous that he is with you and not her. there is a saying that i have heard alot since i found out i was pregnant.. " a guy will always a special bond with his 'baby momma' for always" whether its his wife or not, that is his child(childrens) mother and there is always going to be some kind of feelings there. and even if they were married, obviously they arent anymore for some reason beyond your control.

ultimately it's up to you what you do and you really shouldnt ask people on a site if you should leave him. it's what you choose. yes their advice is good, but what if you actually listen to people and leave him, and in 5 years you wish you wouldnt had done it.
just step back and talk to him, he says he'd leave you if you bring it up again, and if he does, you will get the answers you need. im sorry this is happening but you always have to put into consideration if this girl is just jealous.
good luck honey!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" I really couldn't follow that at all. Who is talking to whom in this conversation?"</blockquote>




Ikr like what is going on seems like they need to part ways. Doesnt sound healthy at all. Imo.

Ok so we're you the other woman in his marriage with her?

<blockquote><b>Quoting endless possibilities:</b>" no. But we got together right away and I found out later that he was constantly looking at other women and trying to have affairs the whole time he was married  "</blockquote>



Ok so they were over?

I wouldn't stay hunny. I know it's hard and I don't usually suggest that. But c'mon. He left his wife. Started a relationship with you. Then cheated on you with her. Then sends her this emails behind your back?!?! That's awful and you and your baby deserve so much better. Are this emails recent? Or from back when he cheated early in your relationship? I guess that's a huge deciding factor. I could maybe get over te cheating since it was early on. But if the emails are recent thats a no go.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting endless possibilities:</b>" no. But we got together right away ... [snip!] ... a huge deciding factor. I could maybe get over te cheating since it was early on. But if the emails are recent thats a no go."

i think* she said it was when they were together for four months,.....TWO YEARS ago...lol  

<blockquote><b>Quoting endless possibilities:</b>" no. But we got together right away and I found out later that he was constantly looking at other women and trying to have affairs the whole time he was married  "</blockquote>




Why are you questioning yourself leave his ass and dont look back.