so sick n tired of bd drama* vent*

OK here the story: had my dd nov.30th 2012 . BD seen her once and is bitching because he hasnt seen "his" daughter but i make it so smurfing easy for him to see her. i was even going to pick him up so he could visit for a smurfing week with her. and take his ass back home but does he want to do that hell no he wants to make smurf difficult. and say i wont let him see her.
i dont know how many times i told him this " dude we're not together so stop thinking we are" . i swear i want to rip his smurfing throat out sometimes . i'm not moving up there where you live . i'm doing so much better without you . he just loves playing mind games and trying to mind smurf me not smurfing working . so just quit.
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Go to court and give him visitation, that way when he bitches e hasn't seen her, its completely on him, u can put in order he's respnsible for his transportation to his visits or responsible for his ride halfway and u can meet half way...

i'm in the process of getting full custody and child support . it's just irritating wish it was easier for me . but thats not gonna happen .

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kristin Greenroyd:</b>" i'm in the process of getting full custody and child support . it's just irritating wish it was easier for me . but thats not gonna happen . "</blockquote>




Its not easy when 2 people have a baby *together* I know what its like to have a baby single also up until the day he wanted to be with dean I was in fear of what he was going to do... our sons turning 7 this year, we barely got our heads together last year, it was 2 years of fighting in court after he walked out when I was still preg... just hang in there always keep ur babys interest at heart, he will get over it, it took my ex 6 years to get over me and *us not being together... now he's ok and even comes to my other kids bday parties lol
It gets easier if both of u keep the baby 1st...