Is this defensive?

This is regarding my last post of dh calling a friend of his baby.

He finally e-mailed me back and told me to do something productive and to stop sending him these "trash e-mails".

I am speechless. I need to get out of the apartment for a bit so I am going to get dressed and head to the library to do some school work.

They might just be joking. I wouldn't be worried. SO calls everyone babe and so do I, lol. I don't know, I mean it's your relationship and you know more than I do, but none of that seems concerning to me. Especially because she's helping with your visa.

Uhm we would be having a serious talk when he got home. It sounds very suspicious, steaming off your last post.

Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" Uhm we would be having a serious talk when he got home. It sounds very suspicious, steaming off your last post."

 

He's getting defensive, a guilty trait, and obviously there are issues in your relationship that he doesn't think are serious.