Ok so me and my son's dad are not together but we still hook up occasionally. He knows I have been going on little sleep because since monday my son has cried at night leaving me with about 2 hours of sleep in the last 3 days. He volunteered to come over last night to help me out with him so I could sleep. I thought this was a wonderful plan but things really didn't turn out the way I thought they would. Normally my son cry's from 12am to about 5am non stop. He has been doing this since monday. He doesn't want to nurse or anything he just cry's. Well 12 comes last night and I think I will get to sleep a little since I do have to go to work at 8am. BD is up playing video games and the baby cry's and not once does he get him. He tells me that since me and him are not together I can't expect him to help out like that and it's my job as his mom. Should I just not let him come back over or is it a learning process. It seems the only thing he's good for is sex and he sucks a being a dad.
I hope I don't sound like a creeper but I just read some of your past posts about this guy and his family and how they treat your son. I hope he's not going to his moms house anymore. And since the dad was defending hitting the baby I would seriously consider how much of a part you want this guy to play in y'all's lives. A bad influence is so much worse than I influence when it comes to a dad. Kwim ?
<blockquote><b>Quoting A is Me:</b>" I hope I don't sound like a creeper but I just read some of your past posts about this guy and his family ... [snip!] ... you want this guy to play in y'all's lives. A bad influence is so much worse than I influence when it comes to a dad. Kwim ?"</blockquote>
**a bad influence is worse than No influence.
Damn phone lol
I have to day I wouldn't let him over. If he's not there to help support you and be a dad then there is no reason for him to be around. Just because your not together doesn't mean he shouldn't help you. That is still his child and he still has a responsibility to help raise him. If he won't, then get him out of your life.
Ummm.... please let him out of your front door and let him know that he is welcome to come visit when he is willing to help out. Oh, and stop having sex with him..... there is too much good peen out here to settle for a loser.