re: Goooone

Quoting Rainie Yang:" They always seem to translate her response about something molesting her. I don't understand it. The next line is about the friend who is going with us."

Weird.

Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rainie Yang:</b>" I don't know. He hasn't gone to California ... [snip!] ... So he is from America and lives overseas now.. so I'm guessing she is an old friend of his. Hm I don't like the sound of it."

No, he's from China (they both are) and is in the process of getting his green card. They met at his university here and then she moved to San Francisco to work.
The closest he's been to California is when he visited his best friend in Seattle a few years ago.

When they do talk, its all in Chinese so I don't understand it.
I can't ask him to not talk to his friends because I talk to my male ones all the time.

Quoting Rainie Yang:" In another translator it translated to liberties. Both sound weird."

what is the full translation? because molesting or liberties would both upset me because they can be used in a very dirty way and if it was in chinese i would wonder as to why the language change if not to say something personal without everyone else knowing?

I would flip smurf if my husband called someone else baby unless it was his sister. I call all my female friends baby, but its not sexual its more like I talk to my kids lol. In a mommy tone. Still i would feel uneasy as well. Im sorry.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rainie Yang:</b>" No, he's from China (they both are) and is in the process of getting his green card. They met at his ... [snip!] ... in Chinese so I don't understand it. I can't ask him to not talk to his friends because I talk to my male ones all the time. "</blockquote>




Absolutely, but if he is being inappropriate I would question him. Freinds are ok, but there is a line you can't cross when you're married.

Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rainie Yang:</b>" No, he's from China (they both are) and is ... [snip!] ... but if he is being inappropriate I would question him. Freinds are ok, but there is a line you can't cross when you're married."

Agree! i call my husband out for anything that makes me uncomfortable and in a relationship you need trust and a mutual respect for each others feelings. I gave up a male friend for my husband because it made him feel insecure.

<blockquote><b>Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:</b>" Agree! i call my husband out for anything that makes me uncomfortable and in a relationship you need ... [snip!] ... trust and a mutual respect for each others feelings. I gave up a male friend for my husband because it made him feel insecure. "</blockquote>




I did the same thing. Not because he forced me or anything but because I knew it didn't make him feel good and I didn't want to hurt him purposely. He is my husband and more important to me than anyone (besides DS).

You could try to find someone to translate it for you. Maybe it could all be innocent stuff and put you at ease.

Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:" what is the full translation? because molesting or liberties would both upset me because they can be ... [snip!] ... baby, but its not sexual its more like I talk to my kids lol. In a mommy tone. Still i would feel uneasy as well. Im sorry."

 ) 哟，这么调戏我！

That is the original text and with Google translate:
Yo, such liberties with me!

And with Bing:
Oh, such a hit on me!

sounds like she is calling him out for flirting aka calling her baby. But like she liked it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:</b>" sounds like she is calling him out for flirting aka calling her baby. But like she liked it. "</blockquote>




:/ this

Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:</b>" sounds like she is calling him out for flirting aka calling her baby. But like she liked it. "</blockquote> :/ this"

Smurf.

If he is smart, he won't come home for lunch.

i don't think its something to end your relationship over at this point, i would just confront him as to why he feels its ok to flirt with someone when he is in a relationship. Express how you feel and put him in your shoes. IF HE BECOMES OVERLY DEFENSIVE. thats a HUGE red flag mama. Good luck

Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:" i don't think its something to end your relationship over at this point, i would just confront him as ... [snip!] ... Express how you feel and put him in your shoes. IF HE BECOMES OVERLY DEFENSIVE. thats a HUGE red flag mama. Good luck"

We've been having a ton of other issues too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rainie Yang:</b>" We've been having a ton of other issues too. "</blockquote>




Make sure you talk first, looks can be deceiving. Maybe it's a misunderstanding

The site I use says it means:
Yo, such sexually harasses me

I tried another site and it says the same thing.  

I tell my best friend "I love you" and call him honey all the time (I am also guilty of calling friends sweetheart and love. For my DH he doesn't have any friends he is that close to so it would alarm me. But I don't know how your DH is, if he normally doesn't use pet names like that I would definitely ask.