Quoting B♥Z:" My number is higher than DH's, by a bit and I think that bothers him. He has never outright said it does, but he'll make comments here and there about it."

mine is the same way... but what can ya do.. we had been really good friends and they get got a GF and was a big dick to me.. so we didnt talk for like 2 years and then we ran into each other and it was history.. in that time, i was single and had fun!

I know how many people my SO has been with, but only because I was the second person he was ever with. but, during the time we were broke up (a little of a year) we both dated other people. I was in 2 relationships, at slept with both. He was with 5 people but slept with 3/5.

SO and I are equal, we've been with the same amount of people. We've both been with 8 including each other, the only difference is I dated everyone I slept with. He wanted to date the girls he's been with but they were sluts and didn't want anything serious...which I'm happy about because I'm his first real thing, those girls hurt him though   but now he's got me!   I love that man more than anything!

Sorry got a little off topic but to answer your question, depending on high the number was it would probably bother me. One of my ex's was with a TON of people and it disgusted me, he wasn't ashamed of it and seemed pretty proud about it...not that he should've been ashamed, when I got with him I was only with 4 people so 30+ people was super gross to me, I stayed with him for a long time so obviously it didn't change my feelings but it was definitely in the back of my mind. But like I said above, I found the love of my life and we have equal numbers so it worked out perfect!  

i'm my dh one & only
I've slept 4 guys, including him.
& I didn't know their numbers but i'm sure they were way higher than mine.

he's by far the best lover/sex

I sometimes wonder if he'll want to experience different. :/
But he's been faithful 100% even with his very very high sex drive.

Sometimes I wish he was my one & only, tho.
But honestly it's not like the others connection/sex is worth remembering. Ha ha. we took sex adventures slow so I am always bringing new things. Tips, toys, surprises etc.

Quoting *A&N's Mama*:" You're madly in love with SO & they tell you their "number" & it's higher than you expected. ... [snip!] ... who's been with 2 or 3. I could see that being used as ammo in that kind of situation I guess.. Anyways. Anyone else?  "

I am very glad my SO has around the same number as I.

My ex had a REALLY high number and I tried not to let it bothered me, but it kind of grossed me out that he was so free with it AND the type of woman he was willing to sleep with (I met quite a few of them, it was hard not to run into someone he smurfed.)

So yeah, I didn't dump him over it, but it did change my view slightly of him, even if I wasn't willing to admit it at the time.

Quoting SansBraceFace:" I am very glad my SO has around the same number as I. My ex had a REALLY high number and I tried ... [snip!] ... yeah, I didn't dump him over it, but it did change my view slightly of him, even if I wasn't willing to admit it at the time."

Same here, I think that's what made it more difficult to deal with with my ex because we were always running into them everywhere and to see the nasty sluts he smurfed like he would take anything...   Didn't make me feel so special then lol but now I have a wonderful man who's on my level  

I was with someone who was over 100. He couldn't remember because he lost count after 100. That effected me because I thought it was just gross (he was my 3rd)

My now SO has been with ten. Does not bother me. The first mine were one night stands. I'm the only one he has with more than once.

I answered yes it does because if its way higher then expected , like 100, it does.

His number is 150 possibly even higher. So yes it changed the way I felt for him

I think it would make our relationship a little different , me and s/o have only ever been with eachother , and I hope it stays that way , I love it because I feel it makes our relationship so much more special, I dont have any desire to ever sleep with anyone else, I will love to be able to say that we were eachothers first and last forever

Quoting *A&N's Mama*:" You're madly in love with SO & they tell you their "number" & it's higher than you expected. ... [snip!] ... who's been with 2 or 3. I could see that being used as ammo in that kind of situation I guess.. Anyways. Anyone else?  "

not a high number... but I dated someone who said... "I've only been with 2 woman, my wife and one other"... yea.. I was VERY hesitant about moving foward. I didn't want him judging me.. and I also didn't want bad sex.

My number doubles my DHs and I still have a few left over lol. He's only been with 4, and even though his never has hurt me, I intimidate him. I had to explain it to him, that even though I have had more partners than him, it doesn't mean I've had alot more experience. He now has no problem with my number.

I am so jealous of Everyone who's still with their first. My first long term
Bf was my first and I was his. I loved that special bond and feeling we had. It was like a pure love. We even tried a few times to get back together, but we just couldn't make it work. I'm so glad to be with my SO and wouldnt change it for the world but I still miss that feeling.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" not a high number... but I dated someone who said... "I've only been with 2 woman, my wife and one ... [snip!] ... and one other"... yea.. I was VERY hesitant about moving foward. I didn't want him judging me.. and I also didn't want bad sex."</blockquote>




So you never had sex with him or you did?

We've been with the same amount of other people.

The only way it would bother me is if he lied at first and told me a lower number and then came out with the truth being more than 5 more (margin for error I guess.)