Quoting dbailey:" No it's just learning from the first. Everyone has things they do different with the second bc the ... [snip!] ... to do everything and everything is a hassle/chore theres a pretty good chance you'll end up feeling resentful towards the child"she'll be 8 months on the 24th. i feel guilty about that actually. i wish i could enjoy her more. i really want to enjoy her, but i find myself just getting through the day with her. i'm hoping with communication and her independence it will be more enjoyable. i think a big part of the lack of bonding was the delivery and situations surrounding it.