Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" It's like they have excuse after excuse as ... [snip!] ... with DS so he could go play the xbox & I had to pretty much ask permission to go take a shower even though DS was sleeping"
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" We've gotten to that point as well. I've had enough. We've had a few serious fights where I've almost ... [snip!] ... a bit too much coffee, and have been eating like a horse. I've been starving for the past two days, I don't know why lol."
Quoting Not tellin:" LOL. Baby is in growth spurt mode. When that happens you get hungry too! Less caffine and more water. ... [snip!] ... "so and so does more" in our home. We all pull together to make it happen and that is what my kids now 4 and 2 are learning. "
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" See thats what I want DS to learn. But SO is all, "we have to split things evenly, I'll cook if you ... [snip!] ... felt the urge to slap him and that's never happened before. Kinda freaks me out. I don't want DS coming from a broken home "A lot of times you can look into your community center and see if they have them for free. Insurance will also cover them.
Quoting Not tellin:" A lot of times you can look into your community center and see if they have them for free. Insurance will also cover them. "
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" I'm in another country, I'm not sure how it works here I definitely want to look into it though."
Quoting Not tellin:" I can only assume it would be fairly similar. Worth a shot to look into anyway."I thought maybe a church or something would help.. But I dunno if it'd be subsidised because we're only 23 and not married? If that's the case I guess we'll just have to save up for it
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" I thought maybe a church or something would help.. But I dunno if it'd be subsidised because we're only 23 and not married? If that's the case I guess we'll just have to save up for it "
Quoting Not tellin:" I don't know why I didn't suggest that. Churches are very good at offering couples counseling. Go to a non demoninational (that doesn't look spelled right) church and you will have less "issues". "
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" Denominational? I think that's the correct spelling lol. I don't know if there are any around, I'll ... [snip!] ... so once one of us gets pissed off it usually lasts for hours and hours and ends up in screaming matches. Not healthy at all "
Quoting Not tellin:" Oh for sure. Work thru them. Trust me, it is hard hard work. But so well worth it. "
Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" Man maybe I should be making my guy do more....he plays with him for like 20 mins when he gets home and ... [snip!] ... night....guess I just felt like it was all me cus I'm a STAHM But yeah that following you around crap would drive me crazy!"See that smurf would NOT fly with me.. SO is usually really good with changing LO and playing with him and stuff, he just doesn't seem to notice when I'm reaching the end of my tether and that's when he does dumb smurf like sitting on the xbox for hours or going down to the sleepout to smoke with his father for two hours.
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" See that smurf would NOT fly with me.. SO is usually really good with changing LO and playing with him ... [snip!] ... days a week. We don't get overtime, weekends, annual leave. Hell, I can't even go to the bathroom by myself unless SO is home."Haha same. I take her to the bathroom with me so I know where she is, and when she hears me peeing she starts laughing lol